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From: BnP
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To: Pinay
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Friday, September 03, 2010
The sitting judge is the ultimate sovereign in his/her bench and as such they are addressed in court as Your Honor, but it is proper to answer them with a yes mam or sir. As the sovereign in his/her bench, he can issue order of contempt and his ruling will be followed until appealed and reversed. There is no concept of infallibility as their decisions are reversible or can be affirmed. But, until ruled out, their ruling stands as the law. Judges are appointed for life - and your recourse is to appeal their decision. As to their character, they can be punished but by their own peers, meaning a committee within the judiciary. But they can also be prosecuted just like an ordinary citizen for which they are except when they are the presiding officer. This is my response in a nutshell.
From: Pinay
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
Just experienced attending a court hearing for the first time in my life about some development company that went into receivership being a first mortgage holders on some of their resort properties. This experience taught me to avoid dealing with any receiver if I can help it as their fees and expenses have priority over any secured creditors and if given the chance, they will prolong the process and convert any assets turned over to them into their fees and expenses, it is better to initiate foreclosure. My investment group decided to finance one purchaser's bid to purchase two of the resort properties just to take it away from the clutch of the receivers. I was impressed by the decisiveness of the judge, known for doing all her required readings before the hearing. She decided to hear the last 3 cases as it involved 4 lawyers so they don't have to waste their time and their respective clients' money listening to the first six cases. It took her only 5 minutes to decide on their claims. But two of the claims were adjourned to Sept 14th to give two interested purchasers to present their argument as to why their offer should win, we are well secured but I feel sorry for the debenture holders mostly comprising of unsophisticated investors lured by high interest. My father wanted me to pursue law and if I was not sponsored by an Accounting firm here in Calgary soon after I took the CPA board exams in the Phil for my first ever job, I would have pursued it.. perhaps in my next life but that judge sitting high up in her imposing desk matching the wooden wall pannels in our new, highly secured and expensive court house made me wonder what it must feel like to be in her place. By the way, BNP, why do we have to address them as your honor and why are judges given such power to charge someone in contempt of court if they argue with him or her ruling, are they really that infallible? Ordinary citizens can complain to the bar association for any of their members' misconduct albeit after considerable burden of proof and expense but what is our last recourse if you have any problems with any sitting judge?
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
I like to personalize my food. That is why I am describing them that way.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
Thai? Yes, I found them very feisty and possessive. I like the spiciness - but I hate restraint.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
I find them very feisty - and possessive. Not to my liking.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
goldies products are overpriced and over rated. the managements are taking advantage of the fact filipino clientele missed home cooking and are sucker for such. lately, they are closing some branches as others realized what they are getting into: less food for the money. competition plays important role as chinese, japanese, vietnamese restaurants offer varieties as well as values. has anyone tried thai?
From: A G
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Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
About two months ago, I was in LA and I brought home hopia made by Valerio’s and Goldilocks. The hopia from Valerio’s were fresh from the oven and I bought it in bulk while the hopia from Goldilocks were neatly packaged in fives. I filled up my hand carry bag for my friends and my wife’s breakfast supply for months, keeping them in the freezer. But you know what, as usual, the price determines the quality of the product. Quality is an excuse for lesser quantity.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
Here's my two cents in naming my bread if I am that creative. If I name it, it must be something that is synonymous to an analogous to a sumptuous meal. Imelda bibingka - he!he!he!he! sounds like bilasa. It must be as fresh as the baby's breath, or as intriguing as jab's mind. I have in mind alfie's or alfiemore’s bake goods a name sufficiently enticing and evoking femininity and creativity sufficient to titillate and bring any man's fertile imagination to his knees.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, September 02, 2010
So Valerio’s has taken over Goldilocks and Red Robbins? The only thing my wife asked me to bring home last time I was there in July is the siopaw at Red Robbins. I used to pack my bags with Goldilocks bake goods before but she did not ask anything from Goldilocks last time I was there. Anytime I am in San Diego area, I never miss Mamon Luk – their cuisine is close to what I remember when I use to dine at Mamon Luk. I tried Conching – but someone warned me in a very stern voice not to park too close to his newly shined Mercedes – when I was pulling in with my PT cruiser rental car. But the best I experienced was that little Korean place along Rt. 101 who sells fried liempo – crispy and sizzling. I was worried about my BP so I gave the untouched liempo to Yols. She must have in mind ….. you came all the way and all you brought me is the fried thing in a brown bag. He!he!he!he! They even have fried crispy pata (pig knuckles and thighs). We do not get those in East Coast.
From: A G
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
Yes, Jab, you did not malign anybody because you just pointed the generic characteristics of a pandesal. You had always acted as a level headed, nice person.
From: yols
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Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
hehehehe,... jab, you are officially this MB's mascot, hehehe. ____ Pinay! wake up from that board meeting, this is how you loosen up girl!
From: jab
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
for commercial purpose, packaging is everything. a 'naked' bread is boring. compare chinatown siopao with goldies and you would see the difference. this does not mean goldies is better than chinatowns. granted they are almost equal, freshly made is better than frozen. namimg your product should be catchy and for the long term. if i may use obama pandesal for example, it entails several problems one which involves propriety and legal aspect. while obama is a hot name now, will it be hot as hot pandesal wilma profess to be 20 years from now. if for some reason, pres obama becomes the worst pres for economic reason, would wilma feel the same way later on about her pandesal? if obama decided to charge wilma royalty for naming her bread after him, will she drop the name to save her bakery? what's wrong with pandesal de wilma as a name? in the end, it's the quality not the name that will make customers coming back. wilma bakery being in the south has no meaning for us in the north unless you are valerio's. as wilmas husband, fred flinstone would have said many times before, yabayabadoooo.
From: jab
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Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
you need to slow down before making accusations. if you read my last post, i don't see any thing wrong with what ive said. everything is true. adding prefix to a name is for commercial purpose only. pandesal is pandesal as i am sure you know this. a rose by any other name is still a rose. exposing reality has nothing to do with crab mentality. if you feel your pandesal is better because it has obama or manny name on it, you deserve that praise. you don't need me to criticize or praise you. let the taste speak for itself. until then, this mb is open to million viewers worldwide. acting like you can't afford a criticism is bad for publicity. maybe you should 'plug' somewhere you feel safe. on the other hand, we challenge you. convince us and the rest of the world. prove your worth; enough talk, let your bread do the talking. as far as being typical filipino possessing crab mentality, i can't help in thinking how you know about this trait. is it perhaps you own the same trait? how do you know we are not good looking? who cares if we are not good looking? my mom love me the way i am despite the fact that my dad is unsure if i am his child. that is good enough for me. have you look at the mirror lately? throwing insults at the messenger only prove you are not sure about your message. is that not crab mentality itself? if your are as confident and happy as you said, you would not feel defensive as you are now no matter what others say. monikers or no monikers, i am not coward. you yourself use different monikers. i am not different. this board, like any others, was created for ideas such as yours to express. no one told you to stop posting. despite this, you will be poke, provoke, criticize by others. this is not north korea or old philippines. lighten up, girl.
From: Fed Up
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Remote Name: 75.11.166.227
Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
Spencer and Jab, you two are a typical Filipino that possesses a crab mentality, one who, because of envy, pulls down another who's trying to get ahead. Shame on you. I'm 100% sure you two are not good looking and are deeply troubled by poor self-esteem, so prop yourselves up you malign others, even people who you haven't met and have done you no wrong. Individuals who are confident and happy with themselves do not disparage others, they inspire them to be the best they can be. Do not forget that this board is not yours. If the owner allows someone to post commercials here its none of your business. You two are downright cowards hiding behind assumed monikers to make negative comments...we, the people of San Carlos, are not your kind.
From: spencer
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To: bnp
Remote Name: 24.234.247.34
Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
is obama pandesal ingenious and original? the name itself cannot be trusted so this piece of bread is as bad as it is portrayed. wilma is lying thru her teeth
From: BnP
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Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
Well jab - if i follow your argument before, it could be the same meal - but the distinction and difference comes in preparation and the way it is served to you. Packaging it is also very important for the ritual of removing the package is almost as enticing as the meal itself.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
pandesal is pandesal. all you have to do is add prefix to it. it could have been bnp pandesal. pandesal has basic ingredients it require in order to be pandesal. naming it after famous person is just for commercial purpose. i think wilma should pay obama royalty for her to use president name. she should do the same to manny.
From: BnP
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Date: Wednesday, September 01, 2010
What a stroke of ingenuity and originality. Obama Pandesal, Pacquiao bread .... the name alone invokes the quality of baked goods produced. San Diego must be the Mecca for discriminating taste. Quite envious!!!!
From: Wilma F Ventura
Town_City: San Diego California
Email: richardsbakery@yahoo.com
To: All my Kabaleyan
Remote Name: 75.55.39.253
Date: Tuesday, August 31, 2010
I just want to share you my new blog. And I would like to say thank you all for your support. Here's the newest blog.Please click the link http://wilmasbreadbutter.blogspot.com/
From: BS
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Remote Name: 184.8.115.191
Date: Tuesday, August 31, 2010
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-J7J_IWUhls&feature=fvw
From: Pinay
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To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Wow, I hope you are keeping busy educating and inspiring future scientists to follow in your footstep. Like my favorite professor, I urged him to volunteer mentoring students or join some NGOs that cater to youth's counseling and professional development. I am pretty busy preparing for some board meetings but look forward to reading more of your well thought out and articulate postings. I hope your postings are not intimidating the others from posting, perhaps I should refrain from asking more questions for now but keep on posting your thoughts on things like how do you resolve your high unemployment problem, your personal and government's spiralling debts not to mention rising house foreclosures?
From: Tasio
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Email: An Essay on Technology
To: "The Cause and Effect of Specialization"
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Sunday, August 29, 2010
"The Cause and Effect of Specialization"... My father was a math school teacher. He went to school learning with the use of a pencil and his mind to analyze and calculate numbers. When I was in grade school, I did the same thing, using a pencil and my mind to analyze and calculate. But in college, I had the help of the Slide Rule to do my calculations. My son started in grade school using the pencil and his mind but later on, the computer age came along to help him all the way to college and beyond. Although my father, my son and I have more or less the same IQ, I am knowledgeable than my father and my son is very much more knowledgeable than I. This should not be a surprise because what happened in my family is just a repeat of the human history wherein human beings are continuously pursuing perfection through survival of the fittest.... With the advent of the computer technology, the process of attaining and harvesting education is faster and more accurate. But sometimes, technology deprive an individual to be a jack of all trade but master of none in order to be competitive in a given field. Technology exacerbated the specialization of individuals' skills and compartmentalized the people’s abilities. Nowadays, people are specializing in very narrow specialized fields. In the field of Medicine, we have all the narrow specialized areas, unlike the old times when physicians did almost everything that pertained to illness. But the net effect is that we receive excellent care and longer life span compared to the past. There is corollary to our emphasize to specialization, that is people will have stronger co-dependency with one another than before. Their dependency on technology took away some basic skills in working with their hands. Outside my specialization, I am less adept in fixing things with my hands than my father was and my son is less adept than I. But my son has a smart reply, he said that with his specialty, he could support employment of others with specialty to fix what he could not fix, which is a example of co-dependency.... We should not be alarmed because what is happening is just a repeat of the human history. In the early times when humann beings were wandering food gatherers, individuals fended for every kind of job necessary for survival. When settlements were formed, people slowly diversified according to their abilities and skills. With time, the diversities in skills became narrower and narrower until the specialization became very detailed. I will not be surprised to see more narrowing of specialization if the population keeps on growing. The advantage of narrow specialization is our ability to have more detailed and basic understanding of the problem and its solution. All the knowledge and skills acquired came out from the competition brought about by the tremendous growth in population and the survival of the fittest. Computer technology and gadgets are here to stay and students today are trained to adapt according to the time. Because they grow up with the modern technology, their mind and body are wired to adapt with using technology in their every day life. Their mindset and approach to learning will not be the same as thirty or fifty years ago, but their ease is just as easy as we had fifty years ago. I saw the ease with my son who cruised his studies in the same manner that I did during my youth. My son and I sometimes look at a problem from different angles but our conclusion comes out the same. I am more contemplative but he is in a hurry and more direct with the answer because that is how computers and new technology response, very fast.... People nowadays have more things to learn in order to be competitive. Because the food pie is getting smaller and the food chain is getting longer, competition is getting stiffer. In all the fields of endeavor, from being a custodian to being a senator, it is the survival of the fittest. Countries would compete against each other by educating their population in the production of necessities of life and of good life. Economic and political boundaries will tighten as the result of the survival of the fittest, but at the end, technology, geophysical location and population control will determine which few nations will remain dominant in the world of survival
From: Pinay
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To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
You remind me of a retired Jewish Duke U professor that we met on our first cruise almost 8 years ago that I still correspond now and then. He is a poet, a philosopher and an old soul like you and I look forward to reading his response to all my queries so I call him my favorite professor. I am happy to know that we still have a long way to go before we reach the maximum population that our earth can sustain. With most of the developed countries registering an even if not net negative population growth, am sure China and India will follow suit as their living standards improve. Certainly, we can adapt but I am glad to be gone before computers take over our daily life and we lose our ability to think and ponder about things. I refuse to get a technology package in my new car for that simple reason. Do you think all these computer gadgets will negatively impact the development of our children's ability to think, to make rational decision? I read somewhere that our children are so wired up and that their brains need some downtime.
From: Tasio
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Email: The inevitable day
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
Ever since the Industrial revolution, human beings are polluting the earth at a faster rate. With more than 6 million people dumping their wastes on earth, it is conceivable that some of the waste products are polluting the seas and oceans of the world. We don’t have the whole picture of the underneath of the oceans if it is disturbing the ecosystem of the waters. But one thing sure is the fact that pollution will eventually change the course of human history. It took millions of years for the human being to arrive at its present state, but with polluted environment, the change would arrive at a faster rate. The change could be restrained if the environmental change is minimized, but I think change is inevitable because of overcrowding due to the rapid population increase. The increased population coupled with technology would hasten the migration and immigration around the world, which would eventually create one true human race in thousands of years... But we know from history that nature always adapt and correct itself. When the earth population exceeds 12 billion people, the population which the earth could comfortably support, something has to give in. Because the ecosystem would become imbalance, nature would find a remedy. Human beings are dependent on the trees and the animals around them so if the environment changes, human beings would also change.... Re the meteorites hitting the earth, it happened in the past so it could happen again. Can earthlings do anything to prevent a big meteoroid from hitting the earth? I am not capable of answering that question, we need an Astrophysicist to theorize and calculate to answer the question. My mind is not big enough for Astrophysics, it is only good for theoretical imagination and simple down to earth facts.
From: T sio
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Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
Yols, you have an eye of an eagle who watches the bank of a river. You hit it right that Notorious is harmless hummingbird, who likes to play around with weighted words. But because you recognized him wearing a mask, he will surely melt away very fast.
From: BnP
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Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
I have greatly mellowed, thanks to my wife's unrelenting understanding and compassion of my flaws. Now I cook breakfast for her on weekends, wash her car, and I don't have to be told, I have been programmed. he!he!he!he!he!
From: Pinay
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To: Yols
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
I have been told to loosen up before by my young staff when I was still working apparently, I have mellowed since then but thanks for reminding me again.
From: Pinay
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To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
Thanks for enlightening us about science in layman's terms. I read somewhere that in our government's pursuit of space exploration, we have neglected or have not done enough to understand what are beneath our oceans and seas. The fact that our fragile earth comprised of 67% of water much like our body, we should invest as much resources exploring the depth of our oceans and seas to find out as much as we can for our very existence may very much be dependent on its health and sustainability, do you agree with this assertion? What about all those meteors and waste from space, do we have anything right now to propel them away from hitting our planet?
From: Tasio
Town_City: absolute standards
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To: Pinay
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
I am not in a position to know the inside track of the government action to explore the space, but just by using my common sense, I believe the government’s allocation of funds for space exploration is a part of government design to employ the bright scientific minds in order to continue the pursuit of the sky that started in the dawn of civilization. It is a continuing fascination of the Human Beings about the sky that began during the dawn of time and as long as Man is alive, the process will continue. I believe it is Man’s pursuit of perfection ( evolutionary process) why we venture far and beyond our imagination. As far as Man quest of looking for a habitable solar system, I think that is not the purpose of the government because the distance involve is beyond Man’s life span…. But because NASA, a lot of the worldly discoveries came about from the space projects, some medical kits and daily items were products of the space exploration. Is there life in the Milky Way or in the other Galaxies? The Earth is just a grain of sand on the beach when compared to the vastness of the universe and the other galaxies. Therefore, the probability exists that there is life in those places. But personally, I believe there is a one Being who can answer your question about life in space because no other living individual could ever leave and write about his adventures with the aliens in other universe. The only thing left for human beings to do is to imagine. The human brain is capable of thinking and imagining things, therefore if word existed in our brain, the probability of the existing representative of the word somewhere in the universe is probable. Why? Because our mind is a product of experience ( evolutionary process), therefore, the words and objects that we picked up in our mind did not come from nothing but had a seed to germinate from. It is like saying that a pound of weight is equivalent to a pound shown by a measuring scale that is available to us. But how do we know that the pound on a measuring scale represents a pound of weight? The weight we measure on a measuring scale is an approximation of the standard weight kept in the Bureau of Standards in Paris. Would it be that the real absolute standards exist in the universe? Would it be then that the words or objects that we imagine in our brain have also a standard kept somewhere in the universe? The answer would represent the absolute truth about everything in this universe. If you ask me, I would say that the answer is kept by an Absolute One. ( This is my Saturday essay), hehehe. I thank you Pinay for titillating my mind. .
From: Pinay
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To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
While you are on the subject of gossip or rumours, as a scientist, can you confirm the validity of a claim that one of the reasons why our government ( courtesy of taxpayers) are spendings billions of dollars exploring other planets is to find other habitable planets for the chosen ones when the earth becomes uninhabitable? Do you think there are other forms of life (aliens) in other planets who are smarter than us?
From: yols
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Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
Now I understand the frustration some of you felt a couple of years ago when I joined this little group standing on top of my pedestal expecting you all to be good little boys and girls. I'll be back in a couple of years, or when Pinay finally realizes the irony prevalent in this board, or when mars and earth comes together in perfect harmony again, ... whichever comes first. Btw, Notorious is as harmless as Tasio who's also been the "oldest" poster around here and jab being the youngest in age brings with her the most refreshing point of views I've read in a while. ----- Pinay, loosen up girl, it can be lonely up there.
From: PTasio
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Email: Saturday Morning Rhyme
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010
"Last night as I looked up at the man on the moon, By its side was a shinny bright little clone, They seemed to be gossiping about us from up that high, They saw the fond things people did under the sky.. So if you did something funny last night. Make sure to do it again to make it comes out right, For next 217 years with the moon and Mars being afar, What Mars had witnessed makes its eye into a red, dull star."
From: Pinay
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To: JAB and Notorious
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
It seemed like we have a new poster here, so welcome Notorious whoever you are! But take it easy on our friend BNP, I think he is actually harmless like me. We have seen more summers and drank more water and proud to be a member of the babyboomer's generation with KB and Tasio. As retirees, we have time to spare and interact through this medium with like minded people, we need not be personal and as Tasio aptly posted before, we use pseudonyms to protect our identity so let us all respect that and enjoy our banterings. If you have axes to grind, do it privately please.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
it is too late for tiger learning about your carefullness with regards to your habit at home. he could have learn from your expertise. i hope you have two separate phones. but then your wife wouldn't know that.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
ENJOY YOUR WEEK-END FOLKS. It seems that I am being peg as a bad boy here....I don't want to replace TIBURON from that pedestal. Surely, before I get that coveted place, KB Tasio and TPU should be considered. Well not Tasio...these two Ventinilla saints are ahead of me. I just want to tease your minds.
From: BnP
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
sorry, i do not keep a loaded gun at home, knives are placed in locking place before i go to bed, i made the coffee and uses individually wrapped sweetener, i am the cook at home and check my brakes before i drive anywhere else. and most importantly, i still have a good memory remembers every event that happened before, need not write any phone number to remember it, and also all my responses are consistent through out the years. he!he!he!he!he!he!
From: notorius
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To: Pinay, others
Remote Name: 67.135.148.2
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
" Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife". Indeed, that statement was meant to be a statement of peaceful co-existense. We live peacefully either by dealing with our neighbors or by ignoring them. But I think the commandment originated during the time when the human beings were food gatherers and hunters. During those times, when the men went to hunt, their wives or partners would promise not to have sex with the men left behind to protect the tribe and at the same time, the men would refrain from seducing the wives. But during these modern times, with the equality between the sexes, are the women given freedom to seduce and be seduced?
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Remote Name: 184.12.216.198
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
Watch out yan , heheheh
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To: bnp
Remote Name: 184.12.216.198
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
Watch our of Dangerous Wife:::::http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUm8eV6yLJQ
From: BnP
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
I might find myself to the Phil for few days by the end of November - but then again I will be returning by January 2011. Pinay - the ten commandments' prohibition applies to "neighbor's wife." There appears to be exclusion of the single and unmarried ..... or those that are feeling single. (just teasing).
From: BnP
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To: correction
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
built the same say (change to way). It is only when we do not understand the full meaning of it that hatred replaces that feeling. Yes, there is a hurting, but we can move on. If your relation (omit - ship) started from the core of friendship as a point.....
From: BnP
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To: On love and for Notorious from LA, Walnut area.
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
Love is not about control, it is about finding ways to grow together and if it does not work, one must help the other to find what he/she wants and help each other grow. When both are in love, it is a heavenly feeling and equally agonizing when only one feels it. So why is there a need for both to suffer? I say, I have love for both of us, you do not have to love me back – an expression of loving sacrifice. This is in itself defines what love is all about. Filial, religious or amorous love are built the same say. It is only when we do not understand the full meaning of it that hatred replaces that feeling. Yes, there is a hurting, but we can move on. If your relationship started from the core of friendship as a point of understanding, you can always return to that initial point. Move on – yes, hatred no. I live with that idea, and I will die with it.
From: Pinay
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
We had a huge project with Shell in Nigeria years ago and had a few of their engineers in residence in our office. One claimed that his father had 7 wives and 54 children which he provided for and they all live in a circular complex with each family assigned an apartment. The wives share the tasks of raising his children and treat each other like sisters with the first wife having seniority over the younger ones. He claimed that his favorite siblings were not necessarily his full brothers or sisters and was not traumatized by this arrangement. I asked him if he has more than one wife as well and he said that he can only handle one as one has to be really well off and be able to treat all his wives equally in every respect. Different tunes for different folks indeed, so live and let live as long as you can live with the ramifications of your actions. Does anyone ever wonder why one of the ten commandments is "thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife"? Bob still remember you BNP and had great fond memories of our last two trips in the Phil. including all the teasing that I got from our reunion but he trust me completely that he insisted I should go home again on my own after our cruise in China in 6 weeks time. He thinks our society is very matriarchal, the women are strong and they are the glue that hold the family, do you agree?
From: BnP
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
Your name is exactly described by your response. In Pangasinan, we call that "LIPAK-LIBONG" statement.
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
There is a reason why it is hard to say goodbye. It is the instinct to have as many women as you can afford. If you look all around the animal kingdom, you will see the males surrounded by female harems, the chimps and the chicken and the deer all show the male having more than one female. What differentiate human beings from these animals is what we call the behavior and speech. The behavior that human beings had acquired through thousands of years controls our action, to conform to the society where we live. So BNP, if it is hard for you to part, it is your way of saying I like to have you, to love you but our behavioral trait does not allow it. But you can do it under the screen of everybody if your love for your current partner is not very solid. If you love a person, you will stay with her and say goodbye to all the girls you like. Is it possible to love several people at the same time, with equal intensity? Goodbye and good day!
From: BnP
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
Does that mean goodbye does not really mean what it means? Hmmmmm. soooo deep. I guess, it maybe a goodbye; buy you have built friendship as fallback and the door left ajar. I like that thought. People that made you happy will leave an indelible mark in your memory - that comes alive everytime you see each other. Thanks for the thought.
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
You don't leave a second not use for reading that is why you fully know the lyrics of the song. Thanks again.
From: BnP
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Date: Friday, August 27, 2010
The hardest part in person’s life is letting go. A part of you dies. I am lost for word, but the following song explains it all. I cannot say anyone can be callous not to feel the sadness when that time of saying goodbye comes, no matter how many times it happens in your life. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5BJtnGajpQ This is for a friend, and for anyone there that maybe reaching for reason but can’t find it. And if you listen to the lyrics, you will know what I mean.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
You sure know how to respond to our sense of humor. Say hi to Bob for me if he still remembers me. You guys are welcome in my place any given time that you are in my area.
From: Pinay
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
KB, I think you already have the blond and the exotic drink so if I were you, go for the Ferrari even if you have to rent it for a week first to ensure it meets your high expectations before spending your pocket money. BNP, I think you are brave to dare me as you know fully well that I will not be insulted if you choose your favorite cigar or your favorite drink so you are safe with me.
From: K B
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
As I am posting right now, I'm looking at a big picture that has been hanging at my den for the last untold years. It has three characters; the top is a blond lying languorously on her left side showing a contour of her blond hair, shapely shoulders and those undulating hips. In the middle is a wine bottle with it's sensuous lines and at the bottom is a red Ferrari. The caption is, "DECISIONS, DECISIONS". Hard choice, eh? he he he!
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
If you are placed in her position, would you offer me a choice? And what do you think would be my decision between you and good whiskey and a cohiba. Remember, I am an advocate of knowing and evaluating the facts and only after consideration of possible ramifications that I make a decision. I also believe in taking a calculated risk only after knowing the extent of the risk.
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You seemed like a guy who likes desserts but KB may erroneously interpret your generous offer differently. So if a Jezebel offers you a choice of cigar, whisky or her, I hope you have a will power to say "cigar" or your favorite whisky without insulting her.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
Ditan mo naantaan KB ya mapalugar ak.
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We are both right. We can split the price - you go for the dinner, I will come for the desert. Nothing special for the desert jab ---- I will bring in the recipe and we can cook it together. My way of proving that I am really a hands-on guy.
From: K B
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Some little birdie told me that jab is a pangasinan, not an ilocano. She is not from San Car but based on how she writes, she must be close to San Car. My choice would be either Malasiqui or Calasiao, the latter more than the former. Based on her posting name, She most-probably uses a hyphenated name in actuality.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
I even know that she is a lot younger than us having graduated in high school in 1982. That is as far as I will go.
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
Sorry Pinay, I am a hands-on guy, I do not do have the mind of Tasio that will dwell with possibilities. But, I know for a fact that jab is a she.
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
Thanks for the undeserved compliment. I will take it with my cup of coffee, a good start for the day, unless someone parked in my reserved spot again like yesterday ---- and those words I learned from Tiburon will be coming out naturally. he!he!he!
From: mcdc
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
My earlier message missed to indicate your pen name.
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
You are very good, if not of the best, counselor. A lot of the SCCP readers would certainly appreciate your well-said advices. Having read these, I thank you.
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Date: Thursday, August 26, 2010
he!he!he!he!he!
From: yols
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
precious and smeagol ... hehehe!
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Your ability to ride the roller coaster is what counts. When you reach your destination with crumpled clothes and worn out feeling but with smile in your face and sigh of contentment saying what a life... you know you had a good ride and that it is all that matters.
From: BnP
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Sorry jab, as much as I wanted to buy you dinner when I get to Palo Alto, your answer is way too far.
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
It is apparent that JAB got your number, did he/she win the bet? I look forward to your response with bated breath and am turning blue now, so please hurry! And JAB is waiting what the bets are for determining her sex, perhaps BNP can get out of his dinner prize by betting on her sex correctly as well but who would be the members of the jury to confirm the correct answers?
From: Pinay
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Parenting is the most challenging task I ever have to face, perhaps because I was raised in a different culture and can only refer to my upbringing as a guide which was rather strict for my biracial children. I take solace in the following poem by Khalil Gibran's on children. "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls. For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you can not visit, not even in your dreams, You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you, For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable." All we can do is be there for them and support their chosen endeavors which is always not easy to do. As parents, we have the tendency to spare them from any heartaches by learning from their mistakes and letting go at any age is harder than we think.
From: jab
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
being in control is something we have no control of. we can try yet we will never succeed. life is literally a roller coaster. when you think you got it all figure out, it throws you off balance. of course you already know that.
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
her name is venus...
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Okay, I’ll take the first shot. With your roving eyes always on alert, then the appropriate names for precious could be one of the following; Beloved, Dear, Darling, Sweetheart, Honey, Sweetie, Love, but my best shot would be Ruby for Irog, Daisy or Cindy for Sinta.
From: yols
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
I know exactly who you're talking about:) Been up since four. I've ironed every conceivable piece of cloth around the house,... can't even keep coffee down! In a couple of hours, I'll be meeting 174 beaming faces. It doesn't get any easier, much like meeting my daughter's friends for the first time,... less the ironing. _______ When hubby and I dropped her off to college, I sat in the dorm's parking lot for two hours crying. Hubby just sat with me in silence and just let me be. We knew at that point that her life was about to take on a different direction, a direction we didn't have a control over. We could only hope that the values she grew up with she would remember for as long as she can. Coming from a small town, my greatest fear was the friends she was about to meet, more so than the bigger world she was about to undertake. I can't say it's been an easy four years, but I can say that the three of us have grown tremendously. Life's hardest lesson is to learn to let go; to trust that they will make the right choices and to believe in our ability to understand their world.
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
You are indeed a storyteller. You titillated the readers with salivating statements about your FB adventures and then left them wondering about the rest. I think you should share more to the readers in order to finish the plot. Your story is like a movie that ended at the climax. hehehe.
From: BnP
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
I hope Yoli will not spill the beans as she has the advantage of knowing the group.
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
I was exchanging notes with a group of bright beautiful ladies in one of the FB group. I considered our comments in good taste and within the context of discussion. Despite having known each other shortly in those exchanges, we feel very comfortable with each other, and my respect and appreciation for their openness and embracing attitude. This has changed my outlook in the FB exchanges as I find most shockingly empty and worst consisting of self embellishment. One of them politely sent me a message that some may interpret our exchanges differently. This happens everywhere, this happens in this forum. Taking this incident in light of the question given to the Ms. Raj, I believe that our biggest mistake as member of the society is our inability to share ourselves openly in the name of love, understanding and compassion. We are fast in judging everyone without looking at our own flaws. Our defense mechanism is on duty 24/7 – not me, not my fault. I have never felt open to anyone in the MB except those I met personally, but, I feel obliged to give that lady my true name as she only knows me by Boleg. Precious, is her attitude, precious is her outlook in life, and divine is her appearance. I know that her last private message to me is her way of saying I don’t want to get misinterpreted; no, I do not misconstrue her friendliness. I also thank her for the subtlety of her delivery. If anyone is going to misunderstand her friendliness, I feel sorry for that person, for her kind seldom comes in our lifetime. So to you precious, thank you for those precious exchanges. So, to remember her, I have a name for her --- a dinner for anyone that can guess the name I have for her.
From: BnP
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Sometimes ago, Yoli, posted that she told her daughter, “Let me be your mother first, then your friend.” I have expressed the same with my boys, that I am the father that I will risk their anger if it means pulling them to the right direction. Will I allow my daughter to live with someone? The answer will be a reverberating NO. Can I do something about it if she ignores my advice? Perhaps none, but that will not stop me from telling her what is wrong. I give the same advice to my sons. Our greatest fear as parents is alienating our kids because of our objection to their decision. But we can express that objection without diminishing our familial love to them.
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Date: Wednesday, August 25, 2010
It was in late 90s a very close friend left a voice mail early in the morning. Realizing that it must be urgent, I returned the call as soon as I retrieved it. He was asking my advise about his unmarried oldest daughter who is of age, college graduate, and already have a place of her own. The problem is that during a dinner at the daughter’s place informed the parents that the boyfriend, a baptist will be moving in her apartment. My friend told me that he was not able to finish with the dinner, told his wife to get her things and off they went home. He asked me what to do. I told him to invite them to a dinner in their place, and while dining, expressed his views calmly, tell Marie, that you love her, and whatever happens she will always be her daughter, and that love will not diminish. However, what she is asking is contrary to your moral upbringings and religious belief, living together as husband and wife without getting married is not a welcome practice in the family. But, tell her that although you object to it, you can’t do anything, and no matter how disappointed you are, it will not displace your feeling for her as the father and that you will be there at all times. Then turn to the BF, and tell him that you have no ill feelings with him, you are just disappointed that he is not able to respect the value for which the daughter was raised. Then, I told him to drop the issue and continue with the dinner as if nothing happens. They did not pursue the plan to live together, and after three months, they got married in church. The husband converted into the Catholic faith.
From: Pinay
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Thanks for the advice and your greetings was on time as I came into the world today and my beloved father chose to leave us on my bday 10 years ago from a first fatal heart attack so now my siblings remember my bday because of him. The dinner went great and he is a good man, 8 years older than my daughter but seemed solid and smart. I only hope that he did not think my daughter was such a high maintenance with her orders however. But I think he enjoyed himself and was very gracious so I will sleep better tonight. Thank you Tasio for your advice as well.
From: K B
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Remote Name: 75.86.183.69
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
First of all, a belated happy natal day!. Now for the more important aspect, how do you act when you see your daughter's BF during the dinner? Take it from someone who has been there on more than one occasion. First of all, smile!. You can participate in the usual mundane stuff like how are you and the how do you do. Then clam up and resist the temptation to say anything. But you must maintain the nice, pleasant face. You will soon find that your daughter's BF will then start a conversation. Unless he has the innate talent of BnP,he will soon spout stuff that may not be congruent with the topic presently on the table. Your daughter will then get the drift by herself so you do not have to tell her "I told you so".One thing sure though,these young ones are much smarter than we think. Good luck, he he he!
From: Pinay
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Thanks for the birthday greetings! Just got back from hiking in Kananaskis with the two most important men in my life, my husband and my son. I thought climbing up is better as you have better control but I was proven wrong, perhaps it is my age creeping up but managed to hike 6k before lunch. What a beautiful weather for a hike and the lunch at the terrace in Kananaskis golf club with the majestic mountains and beautiful golf course for an ambience is worth visiting for golf afficionados like KB and BNP. Now I have to meet my daughter's bf when we go for dinner, hope my first impression will improve or I just have to tell myself that it is her life to live and she is old enough to know what is good for her.
From: TPU
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I won't be surprised Phil Army and PNP both are both incompetent. Insurgency since after World War II has never been controlled starting with this bad Guy KAMLON in Mindanao/Sulu Areas and so with HUks and now the NPA and the bad part of it, these insurgents use the same type of weaponry as the Army. Police likewise are the same. Plenty of killings in Pangasinan are mostly unsolved. Life is cheap to them. These two agencies are just as good in personal inspections and at Parades. Killings in Barrios in the middle of the night makes these Police (foolish) scared to go and find for themselves whats going on. I suggest you do not invest your future worth in our nativeland because it is not improving. The poor are becoming poorer and the rich and influential are getting richer and powerful.
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
In 1969 Miss Universe Contest Gloria Diaz was asked, "If the man from the moon landed in your hometown, what would you do to entertain him? "Her reply: "I guess since he has been in the moon so long, he would enjoy anything that an ordinary man would." Now what would an ordinary man yearn having been away? Ice cream maybe? Also, in the same token, when a Spanish Galleon neared the island of Oahu, they sent two Filipino slaves to check the shore, so as not to place in harms way the spanish sailors. They were instructed to shout to the ship their immediate findings so the captain can prepare for landing. The two Filipino slaves happen to be Cebuanos and they reported back what is not present in the island that the sailors wanted to have after a long haul in the ocean, ….they said, “WAIKIKI DIRE” and from that time, that beach was known to be Waikiki. Ahh, absence makes the heart ponder!!!!!!
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Regarding the Miss Universe contests. I happened to watch the last 30 minutes of the show. I agree with you, Jab, that Venus Raj missed the boat. Her answer to the question was very shallow, meaning that her mental and intellectual preparation was inadequate. Here was a great man, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, who said that “ The heights by great men reached and kept were not attained by sudden flight, but they, while their companions slept, were toiling upward in the night”. Words of wisdom, is it not?
From: jab
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was it coincidence the pnp 'bungled' the hostage crisis in manila while venus raj lost a legitimate title shot at miss universe due to 'inadequacies'? was it lack of planning or was it accident waiting to happen? venus would have been the shining moment, in hindsight, for the philippines had she not missed the opportunity to knock the question out of the ball park. she instead ended up as fourth runner up which is not bad with 82 beauties vying for the crown. for the PNP, i still think it means palpak ng pilipinas. what about philippine media? does it have share in the blame on this tragic moment? would it be different reaction of similar incident had it been filipino tourists died? remember the bus crash last week in baguio with filipino american family in it? it is almost a cry in the forest. the quirino grandstand tragedy would not go away for a while now that the chinese hk put a spotlight to an incompetent PNP. as usual, the filipino masses well end up suffering from this tragedy both financially and culturally.
From: jab
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
what is the odd in vegas about my true sex? can i bet against and/or for myself?
From: TPU
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Remote Name: 75.43.213.242
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I will never trust my wife to load things in my travel bags or luggage. The last time we did travel she unwound my luggage added another piece of suit to which I never used, put a payama bottom without the top added more towels. Crazy, hotels or cruise ships have abundant towels.This is nonsense.
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I am from the old school----we do not shit where we eat. he!he!he!he! Ask KB, he maybe pro on this, or TP, the masterjuggler until he gets home to his wife. Ask those that travel occasionally for business - they tell their wives not to worry on their travel kit, they'll pack it themselves and will not trouble their wife; hardly bring their laundry home too. he!he!he!he! When was the last time you packed your hubby's travel bags ladies?
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I have long considered you a family Alumna - you are known to my Josephine, and I will not dream of knowingly and intentionally break her heart.
From: Alumna
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
BNP, will just have to surprise you with a call to have lunch somewhere. Moving the whole household, rummaging through what goes to Salvation Army, 800- got JUNK, and what goes to the new place, alone - with a 16 yr. old is no party! Can't even keep up anymore, this old, beaten, Army wife! Lemme just get settled, then we do lunch and dindin with our families after. FYI to all those that think you usually wine and dine girls and go to bed with them after, this old gal will prove you all wrong; as I would insist BNP and I will go Dutch (haha) to be on the safe side!____Pinay, best wishes on your birthday!
From: BnP
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Special wish of happy birthday to Pinay. May your 26th birthday be as happy as your 21st.
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Kumbaya to you too Alumna - I had a bushel of crabs for your moving to East Coast, but I let them go on account that you have not told me when. Perhaps, when the time comes, I will be harvesting the grandkids of those crabs. he!he!he!he!he!
From: Claudia
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Yes, I remember.If its the original then she's really nice especially the musical Intermezzo she has posted.I remember Guia gave me a picture of a relative J.B.S..a very beautiful lady,the aunt in San Carlos City we were supposed to visit.The middle name same as the wife of Don Simon del Fierro,Bautista.
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There, there....let's all make up and sing kumbayah together! Let's be magnanimous to each other. If there is anything that I learned from exchanging postings in this MB, it is the ability of the posters to move on to better, bigger discussions; keeping in mind the subtle rules that are made by the regular posters as the next topic comes along. It doesn't need to be spelled out and if one misses the point; I say... oh well, you're in the wrong place. With your cojones and tatas exposed, it is really up to the neat picking of your posting for the true and tried locals in this MB. Some come and go, others are quiet, only striking when it suits them. Others are brutally frank that sometimes you just have to learn to take it like a grain of a salt. Then one day, you find out, they've tripped but beware; that when given opportunity, they'll come back lashing out at whatever you post. Every morning, I sit, read, learn, and can come out with different personalities in this MB. BTW, I still think Jab is a he, TTM a she! Regardless of whatever reasons we stick in this MB, it is all in the name of exercising our gray matter and the feeling "belongingness" albeit in cyberspace...
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Was your evaluation that TTM was so gentle and sweet, very kind hearted person without any issue with the world reached after knowing that she is a relative of yours or prior? TTM still posts in Urbiztondo, and reading her postings, I can almost say with certainty that indeed she is sweet gentle lady accompanied by a happy lilting voice, a ready laugh and perhaps physical attributes to match those nice descriptions of hers. A woman for whom any man is privileged and honored to serve her early morning breakfast. And if that description does not match her, then I failed my Laki Canuto. He!he!he!he!
From: tasio
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I remember the first TTM, that she was so gentle and sweet, very kind hearted person without any issue with the world. It turned out that the original TTM is a relative; the world became small with the help of the internet.
From: Claudia
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I am not so sure yet Tasio,I recall ttm posting here and somwhere else as she.TTM could be "Tagadtan Met".Please stay and add some spice to the Pinakbet...malapit na akong ma bann ng asawa ko,he hehe a joke. We have been like this here at SCMB but we end up friends.It seems that the Amputi Layags have sense for critical but constructive dialogues ..Auf Deutsch we simply say ...Ende gut!Alles gut!Gegessen wird es wie gekocht!. (which means we eat how we cook!
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I asked a Gypsy fortune teller and she came out with the a conclusion, that ttm is a “he”. So adjust your mindset when you address your message to him. hehehehe. You probably like to know how did I find out. I’ll tell you my secrets when the right time comes. Try to imagine flying to the moon and playing with the stars, and soon you will come out with something good. So I reiterate that ttm is a male and eventually you will know him too. I know it with certainty, with 98% confidence limit, as an assurance to put weight on my conclusion.
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Thank you for understanding Claudia. That is the simplicity of my message, our ability to extend understanding to whoever we meet along the way.
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To: BNP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
and we move on...having my lunch too.It is a nice Summer day.
From: Claudia
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
So be it,BNP.We can never change a person thru information.massage the soul...
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
So, I am inviting you to start with a clean slate. Let the name callings of yesterday be buried and let it be composted for anyone's fertilizing use. I just made an stimulating breakfast for my wife as she wakes up getting ready for work. I usually get up early around 3:00 to read my notes and prepare for a 10:00 am meeting. Blogging offers a break. I just found out that half of the beautiful people I met by chance at FB are from England. It is a new world people, wake up.
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
As long as I have been posting here, I know I can hold my head high when I say that I am not into digging someone's hidden skeleton, or seek information to despise anyone. I have said constantly that I look for the good in that person, and if I massage it long enough, that goodness in that person will become that person. If you are always looking at their fault, then what good it will do if you stay with that information and not try to change the person. If you can't them leave them alone. I can't make myself a better person by pointing the others fault - neither can I make myself bigger by making someone feel smaller. Their size and their quality will not change me.
From: Claudia
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Yes, it is true and I invite like you do often do, to come and visit me and my city or even in my hometown.But I have no control and it is your personal view of what and how I am.We all have our own choices of how we live our lives,what is good to somebody must not be also good to others.But there is a saying, do not judge the book by its cover,mean not negatively but have to know the person well.But calling names specially using vulgar and hurting words is not acceptable specially when it is untrue. There is a saying that goes...." Ang baho tatakpan mo man ay lalabas at lalabas din".Only time and chance can tell who is who!I am inviting anyone of honest intention to come visit me .Mt hometown is just a stonethrow away from yours,there you can have a good chance to know me personally and my husband ,the whole family.I am coming home gor good ,retire and you can find me by just asking at the Municipal Hall or at known HOTEL RESORT.In my opinion,let us come back to the original purpose of the Pang. org. which indeed can be read as follows, " this site was created to bring us all together.We must pursue the road to unity, whether we are abroad or in our homeland."In times of great need and CALAMITY,we have altogether done great things and still we do what is possible to help our town and provincemates.In our interactions, we win good hearted individuals who engage in different projects coordinated by Pang.org.I wanted once again to acknowledge and thank each and everyone of you who have contributed to ease the plight of my own townmates after the Emong Calamity.Abaw Salamat tan maabig a awro!
From: BnP
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
You are asking TTM to get in touch with your relative so she will have a first hand knowledge of you? I believe that is a second hand information about you, coming from your relatives and not based on TTM's personal observation of you. I like the first suggestion, for TTM to spend time with you and let her know you. Like I told my wife before when she told me that her mother was telling her and her friends were telling her about me, I challenged her to know me personally ---it works. Believe me, you will enjoy it better when you engage the person yourself; of if not, then you will have a well founded conclusion about that person.
From: Claudia
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Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I cannot and do not hate anybody and not crying over spilled milk.It is your own personal assessment.Spilled milk could be sour and unhealthy!!!!!You must have missed the postings in the past,and so missed Tiburon writing he accepts he was "a foolish old man".You are wrong in your information,I am too sure that Tibbs formally asked for forgiveness and he was forgiven.We have been playing on stage like a Zarzuela, if you want, but going beyond,going too personal and violate the rules of agreement repeatedly ..and decency in public must be condoned,not consented.Spreading untruth such as writing "your partner died on your bed," is just ridiculous,don't you think so? what we do on our beds is not on anybody's concern, as Pinay wrote earlier..Freedom of speech is not absolute...I have not requested, nor suggested a person get banned,yes in no time.I am capable to stand on my own feet.I heard that the Webmaster himself is monitoring the Message Boards.In the past the posters usually regulates the flow of exchanges by counterreacting the postings.Nobody must not be subjected to defamation to anyhting that is not true.TTM, you do not know me personally and so I request you to know me first and talk to me in a cup of wine in my home so that you may know who I am.I have some immediate relatives in Las Vegas and in Henderson you could get in touch with if you wish, to hash a first hand info.Do not rely on hearsay,anybody can tell lies and untruth according to his mood, regard this only a friendly reminder....cry over spilled milk is not my lifetime Motto ..I made a mistake like anybody else and some mistakes but I moved on and live my life to the fullest every minute of it.
From: yols
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
Do we all drive within the posted speed limit? The posted speed limit is the law but do we all abide by them 100% of the time? When I break that law, I am well aware of the consequences. Unless I kill someone or drive under the influence of drug or alcohol, I am given the benefit of the doubt and given a ticket, a warning, or a reprimand. Although driving is a privilege, that police officer would not take that privilege without due course. Even a judge will have a hard time taking that privilege away if I am a contributing adult to the society. _______ Yes, there is a written warning up there, and yes, life would be a heck of a lot better if everyone abides by those rules, but life isn’t that simple, and people certainly are not molded to fit our every expectations. And if that is where this board is heading, for everyone here to watch everything that comes out of our thoughts just to please everyone, then I read you all wrong. One more thing, in my household, apology is never demanded, never requested, never suggested, never used as a bargaining tool, … it is given. You can expect it, but why would you? _________ ttm, you are posting from Las Vegas, Nevada!
From: ttm
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
I know Tiburon. He does not aplogize because because in a very narrow line of argument he can stand on what he is talking about. What I see here is that when people make a mistake like Jab they ask for forgiveness. Then why make a mistake in the first place? Asking for forgiveness is a sign of weakness. Like claudia she talked about "kapal muks" about people here she hated. How sure is she about this person if she was not involved? Looking at the exchanges spoken here it seems Claudia is to be blamed too. Why did you involve yourself Claudia if you are not sure of this man? Why cry over spilled milk?
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
error, your child
From: tasio
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
Our gut instinct or the first impression about a person is a good start when judging a person. When we meet a person and we notice that his opinions and attitudes are like ours, we tend to like him. Why? Because we share the same attitudes, and because we believe that our opinions and attitudes are correct. Our liking a person has its roots in biology, that people tend to like people who have similar genetic characteristics because they evolved sharing the same genes so they react similarly when exposed to a life experience. So if your children happened to like somebody, it is most likely because he has something in common with his friend. Birds who flock together seem to have similar feathers. If the person you met had an attitude different from yours, your tendency is to find out more about him because his life experience is different from yours. .
From: Pinay
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
There is nothing wrong with exchanging ideas or even passionate defense of our positions which maybe at the opposite ends of the spectrum as long as we observe common decency in our social interactions as expressly stipulated by the website's management. Name callings, use of derogatory words and unsubstantiated claims should not be condoned even in the name of freedom of speech or against censorship. It is nice to hear from you again Claudia and I hope your soulmate will be able to join you shortly. It certainly takes a big man or woman to apologize for his or her mistakes and for that I accept Jab's apology. Perhaps, I should never attempt telling another joke or sarcasm for my last three attempts were taken literally it seemed. Here is a question for those who have experiences in dealing with their children's choice of mates. Can we always trust our gut instinct or first impression and should we be honest when ask what we think of the man or woman they fancy?
From: BnP
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
6th line down, should read, I saw.
From: BnP
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
I was heavily attack(ed). I was heavily attacked.
From: BnP
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
As long as I have been posting here, and other boards, it has been my practice to respond to any poster if a question is directed to me, or that person is currently engage in the conversation. Likewise, when I first posted here, I was heavily attack as my position reflects what the ladies here considered double standard; those that had engaged me included D’Americano who assailed my position. I responded not in the same language that was used, but in the language I know. To explain with the intent of communicating what I have inside me. I never brought the discussion to a personal level. My gratitude to some person here, that when deemed necessary – they personally emailed me of errors; and not brought it out as such is not a part of the discussion. I have known D’Americano and all the variation of names he used, but when I met him, I see a different person, and that what counts to me. So, when asked what Tiburon is like, I responded with my personal observation not based on his position here. We all post a position that maybe different from our own personality. When a person attacks and you take a similar position, you are in pari delicto, and should not exculpate yourself from the blame. As long as Tiburon attacks the character BnP and BnP’s position and not bring it to personal level, that respect that I have for him on a personal level remains. He had used several names, and we all know that it is him. And if you observe his writing, his position is reflected in the name that he uses. I know his intent is similar to mine, to tease your mind and to bring the best argument from you. I just don’t engage him in insult for he knows more insulting words than me. Tiburon is resting, and until he emerges in this board, I will reserve my response and fire – but that firing will be aimed at his current position and not the past. I believe that practice of mine is consistent – including my response this time.
From: claudia
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Date: Monday, August 23, 2010
Yes, i see it that way too.I appreciate your strong personality by that apology to Pinay.Only weaklings would do otherwise.As for the banned persons who keeps on coming back without invitation to this house ,I just laugh sometimes .reading the DC page i can't but laugh....he he he BNP is funny exchanging postings with that person. I suppose he is a Persona non grata as we call it in my neck of woods.Some use this Pages to simply exude their childish "Quassels",anger,etc and also use as a cheap stage for their "kabastosan". We call them in Pilipino language" KAPAL muks",it is obvious that some have no manners at all,it would be polite for them to knock at the door and ask for reentry......like every normal individual would do.
From: BnP
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
You must have checked the site then. he!he!he!he! Yes, they are all very attractive.
From: BnP
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
The B in BnP stands for Behave with capital B.
From: yols
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
the ladies are all very attractive with hyphenated names from my town, they know me,... behave, hehehe!
From: BnP
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
No, I had a good time with your sister's friend at FB. Good sense of humor.
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
By the end of this year, I will be heading to Palo Alto to help a friend ship belongings to the Phil, including a car. The friend is returning for good to assume a prior position at AIM. If your schedule permits, I will invite you to a dinner - it is on me.
From: yols
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
uh-oh,... did i get myself defriended again, hehehe
From: BnP
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
Check your gmail account.
From: K B
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
Your apology to pinay was nice indeed. It indicates your class. Most people will do the opposite.
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
"more important things to do" as in playing gypsy in fb,... simmelek sirin so paltaq mo amigo, hehehe.
From: BnP
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
If there is anything the likes of Tiburon enjoys, it is pushing the envelop to the limit, and see how you wiggle and squirm. He will be back....I believe he is chasing the sunset along Rt. 1. He is in his lonesome, and things he can do, most of us dream of doing it. Until I get reminded by the stampita that my wife puts in my breast pocket, or the rosary beads that I feel in my pocket whenever worldly thought comes to mind. he!he!he!he!
From: jab
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
it seems i owe an apology to pinay from my previous post. i got carried away; i wasn't thinking right. i didn't mean any harm. i was merely amused at your expense. for that i am sorry.
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Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
while i do not condone malicious language, i do not believe in censoring anyone. free speech applies to everyone unless you live in communist countries. of course, i reiterate what ive said before, free speech does not mean you are free to make statement about someone without offering some facts and/or face the consequence of your action.
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Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010
I heard Tiburon was blocked from this board to the delight of a few specially Pinay. He is on sabbatical but I am sure he is not coming back so enjoy yourselves. Some of you urged him to come back if he has some "cojones" or his blown "ass" to bear. He appreciates such confidence but he rather watch on the sides. He has more important things to do. And to you Mr. Marinas don't you worry he's gone forever.
From: tasio
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Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010
I grew up in a small town and I live in a beautiful island within myself. I was happy in the confine of this little town, which was the only world I knew. Manila at that time was a distant place to me, which I occasionally visited when my big brother was in college. My college days was confined in a very big campus, sanitized and big enough to be like a small town. My innocence to the worldly world stayed intact by the good boys and girls that surrounded me. After graduation, I worked in a suburbia and at that time, the Cubao shopping area, which was my hangout was sanitized. So by the time I left for America, I was a saint, which I carried over all the way until my sixties. So, BNP, TPU and KB, when I die, you can pray to me so I can intercede on your behalf.
From: TPU
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Remote Name: 75.43.198.232
Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010
In Pangasinan when strangers ask for guidance the lucky person's response just say "TELL IT TO BNP, KB and ME"
From: Pinay
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Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010
I was also told that if I hope to marry well, then I better take into heart that chastity is a virtue, that it was a sacriledge to do anything before marriage and that my husband would instinctively know if I was as pure as snow. And when I left the Phil at a tender age of 21 for my first ever job in an Accounting firm here, innocent and ignorant about the ways of the world especially men, my father's last words were " I am not a rich man, my only treasure is my good name so please do not disgrace it." Another paradox, Filipino girls were expected to be chaste to be worthy of their future husband whereas boys were supposed to be worldly so one wonders where they get their experience.
From: tsiao
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Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010
If it came true that you were a priest, Your church would have been a lovely place, As a rendezvous for young , beautiful ladies, To have confessions and private parties... But once you leave that little town, Single, pretty mothers would abound, With little children, well fed as they grow, With their faces and features inherited from you! hehehehe
From: BnP
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Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010
I was told not to give up my virtues, hold my head high and not be tempted by every beautiful young lady that passes by. I was told to preserve myself for my wife for the body is the temple of God and not should be defiled by irresistible vixens. I was told to shy away from the smiling young ladies with tight fitting clothes. Celibacy is to be upheld at all cost, so if desired I can be a priest. I was not listening for the nature of an inquisitive mind is to ponder the unknown and those that are forbidden.
From: Alumna
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Date: Friday, August 20, 2010
I was told not to even date a serviceman for they will have a girl in every port or fort. My Dad had a favorite saying "go, tell it to the marines"!
From: yols
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Date: Friday, August 20, 2010
Growing up, we were told not to marry teachers or artists, hehehe. I also had friends in college who literally walked across campus just to hang out at the Law Library!
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Date: Friday, August 20, 2010
The first time I had a chance to ask my wife for a date, she told me that her mother knows all about me. Her cousin is the Chief Security Guard of the School, and that her friends also warned her of me. I calmly responded, “would you rather have a second hand information, or would you like to find out for yourself all about me” He!he!he!he!
From: yols
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Date: Friday, August 20, 2010
okay, I lost ten bucks to someone. Jab is definitely a female, hehehe. Summer is about to show its rear end. How about sharing some good or bad experiences brought about by this season then and now? Let me start, I met my sunny-bunny on my birthday, hot August day, hehehe, 25 years ago and we are still sizzlin' under the stars, hahaha. Here's to all of us: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhUfVcLLvjo
From: Pinay
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Date: Friday, August 20, 2010
Please don't ever feel sorry for me as you really don't know me. I am open minded but what we do when the bedroom is closed is nobody's business. Like I said before, we have to be multifaceted to keep our husband from all the temptations out there especially if he is very successful as mine is and vice versa. But your postings remind me of a nurse I met in New York decades ago who shocked me when she told me that she was on a quest to find out which nationality is the best lover in the world. In the end, she settled for a diamond Jewish dealer, perhaps her decision was tainted by the glittering baubles she was given. She even moved to Israel for a period of time but it did not last, perhaps after all that exciting experiences of short relationships, she found monogamous relationship boring. She ended up a spinster, childless and is now working for a cosmetic surgeon hopefully not to avail herself of free extreme makeover to keep herself youth looking. Our life is what we make out of the cards we are dealt with in our youth. I feel blessed with mine and if I have to do it over again, I would not change a thing including all the mistakes I made for I learned from them. I hope you know what you want in life and are on your way to realizing your goals that will make you happy and content as I am.
From: jab
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
i agree, the journey is more important than the quest although most of us tend to forget what it is we want hence we forget what we are achieving.
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
are you telling me your husband only last 5 minutes? hmmmm.... surely he knows how to use his tongue or you are left wanting more. i wouldn't want to be in your situation pinay. as i said earlier, brain has to be stimulated too. i wouldn't want to have sex just to have sex. that is a waste of energy.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run .... Sometimes it is worth trading the whole day even with just that five minutes. Say pasnok, kesaw tan sakit na laman, so mainomay ya nalinguanan, balet say liket na laman so namnamen mo angad sampot na linawam (jab do you understand this?)
From: Pinay
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
My son is still sowing his wild oats that I told him he seemed more interested in the chase rather than the prize. A couple of years ago, a model looking girl (Fil/Chinese) fell so madly in love with him but she was 11 years younger so he told me that she is too young and because of her age, there are so many things that he can not discuss with her for she will not be able to grasp so as expected, the relationship did not last although her parents really like my son, to my relief as she looks like a very high maintenance and knows how to cook macaroni & cheese only. I agree with Tasio, power and money are such an attraction for young women and old men even Hugh Hefner have them for decoration only, a trophy to show off. Some of these young mostly undergone some extreme makeover women make it their profession to pursue men stars like Tiger Woods or Kobe Bryan as a prized target that I can only feel sorry for their parents and for these girls who must have such low self esteem to aim so low. As to spice in life, it better be more than what you do in bed for what will you do for 23 hours and 55 minutes of each day of your life?
From: Tasio
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
Anna Nicole Smith who was then a “bimbo’ in her twenties was married to her billionaire husband in his nineties. But I suspected that the billionaire at his age had lost a lot of his grey matters. The intelligence of a person peaks between 18 to 25, and then a gradual decline until age 50. The modest decline continues until age 75, with a steeper decline after that. That explained why the billionaire husband lost his common sense when he married Anna. There is saying that a man in love is a fool, and an old man in love is the greatest fool of all.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
Square must be bigger than the hole, I love your comeback...he!he!he! No, I intentionally left Clinton - he was only trying to moisten the cigar before lighting it. I snip, sniff and lick my cigar before lighting. It is a ritual among cigar afficionado.
From: jab
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
the hole must be bigger than the square. you failed to mention bill clinton. when one stop asking why, that is the time one stop living.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010
1. When I stated that I am still trying to understand the benefit of same sex marriage; is not a weakness but an attempt to attune my thinking to the modern concept. I am from the old school, meaning with settled conviction based on my upbringing and what I consider consistent with my faith. However, my conviction can be sustained without limiting other’s exercise of their rightful freedom. That is not a weakness but strength of character. I am also trying to study how a square peg fit a round hole. So my mind is open to possibilities. 2. The ASA evaluation is very simplistic. It failed to consider the likes of Governor Sanford, Kennedy boys, Gerry Rice, Sen Edward whose reason may be pure lust or that they succumb to the temptation. Jab seems to understand that there are inherent factor, i.e., excitement, power are addictive. ASA failed to consider also that in the art of seduction, the seducers are people who understand the tremendous power contained in such moment of surrender. Seducers have a warrior outlook in life, they see each person as a kind of walled castle to which they are laying siege. Seduction is a process of penetration, initially with the mind which the individuals first point of defense. The control of the mind opens the gate to conquest. Like the pugilist, work on the head and the body will follow. You just have to ascertain your role. Are you the seducer or the seducee? That is the reason when one strayed out of relationship, the men are blamed – but they might be the weak mind who succumb to the temptation. But, how do you fight temptation? I always say succumb to it and fight it from within – you may like it and stay there. Jab seems to understand this logic very well. 3. Tasio, I agree with your analysis, and it is a welcome to this site to have one who can explain and make you feel the nakedness of truth in human relationship. Hmmmmm – variety is a spice of life…….I may have been feed the poisoned apple as I have forgotten all about this. But, the mischief may still be in the eye….right Alumna?
From: jab
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Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010
how do you explain anna nicole smith behaviour during her marriage with late billionaire. why would you want inferior partner? thats like having a dog as your partner who willingly roll over when you want to. after reaching the climax of your quest do you climb again or do you zip it up? there has to be more than this physical activity. the mind has to be feed too. if you dont agree with others that is okay so long as you don't put them down. knowing why will enlighten your brain wc in turn might turn away alzheimer/dementia from setting in. embracing instead of attacking is better.
From: tasio
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Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Tasio is back. BNP, for awhile, Jab has been telling us something and I have always known that she is more than a woman. Since we are anonymous in this site playing the role of a character, jab is playing a character of a woman who is more than a woman. I don’t know if that is her real persona, and if she is, I love her for being opened with her views. What is important is the content of the mind more than the body. The mind defines the person and the body is just the carrier of the mind. You can dress the body to portray a personality but the content of her ideas would show the real person. . Jab started slow but now, she is running a meter dash. It is nice to have you as a vocal voice in the group, less reserved in delivering your ideas.
From: K B
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Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010
In my opinion, the raison d'etre on why some people stray is simply variety. If one really looks at it, the orifice has the same anatomy,but the packaging may be different. On a slightly different matter, The American Sociological Association recently presented a finding on why some men stray. Being in a relationship with a female partner who earns more than he does can make a man less of a man. To affirm and restore his battered sense of manhood, he may go outside the relationship in search of sexual conquest. Nothing makes a man feel like "the man" like a sexual conquest. Low level of education can also make a man likely to stray from a relationship. So there you are ladies who are earning more than your partners, a man's ego is really very fragile. You can not say that you have not been warned, he he he!
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Perhaps my eloquence is brought by my pristine desire to express as transparently as I can muster the willingness to engage in a mutually enjoyable conversation. And you ladies are clear as crystal when you poured the contents of your heart. I always believe that it is in the nakedness of the truth that understanding can make it possible for any desire to engage anyone to reality.
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My prior statement; You got me confused jab, now I know you are trully a woman, your writing reflects that, and I can imagine your walk, your voice your manner are delightfully ambigous ----you are both the experienced, desiring woman and the innocent girl with a saucy charm....Now I am no longer confused, you are unambigously charming---both the experienced desiring woman and at the same time the innocent girl with a saucy charm.....
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as for the smart people like you, no one like to trade something or somebody unless you know what you are getting in replacement of. given the right time and reason, i am sure you would agree you would trade your present situation if another opportunity knock as better than present. an upgrade so to speak.
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You got the distinction correctly and based on your prior post, you married a good girl so you proved the statement to be true. As to Jab's stated position of preference, as long as you are happy and hopefully not hurting anyone in the process, all the best to you. I happened to believe in a monogamous relationship and being a good girl as my father asked me not to disgrace his good name when I left the Phil 4 decades ago and never regretted it.
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good girl can go bad even just to spice things up. this happen when an obedient husband will finally meet his fantasy: to be with bad girl.
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i am not finding inconsistencies on your statements. rather you are letting me read them. the fact that you understand and so eloquently described what is necessary in keeping relationship exciting indicate you have some knowledge about what i am talking about. your marriage lasting for 35 years didn't happen because you are obedient husband. lets face it, who would want a steak everyday for the next 35 years when next door neighbor have sushi. i am sure the sushi eater is wondering what steak taste like? somewhere in that 35 years, be it fleeting, wanted something else other than what is on the table. it is human nature. to say otherwise is contrary. ive had chinese foods on my younger years for two weeks in row. chinese for breakfast, lunch and dinner. i know there were different menus on chinese food yet after two weeks, i wanted to throw up. while i am not against monotony, one must do something to spice up before the other partner wander away. fedility without spice? why not if it works for you. but if your partner is 'bored', you better figure something out fast if you really love your spouse. nothing worst in a relationship when all you have is what is in the table which is why men posters here fantasized. the women? they act up. for the wives and girlfriend, try to eavesdrop sometimes what men talk about during kids party. as for your admission on same sex marriages, you should be commended for admitting your weakness. all they are asking is understanding and acknowledgement from government for equal treatment. even war monger like cheney goes soft when it comes to her gay daughter. there is no need for them to hide in closet anymore.
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The only distinction in that statement, is that nice girl go to work, to bed then go home which means that bed is not in their home but somewhere else (meaning she plays), the other is that the good girl’s bed is at home. As I stated earlier, I have been married for 35 years; so if I give my opinion here, it will based on xperiences that occurred 35 years ago. (Sorry to disappoint you jab – but you will not find inconsistency in my statement. he!he!he!) However, if you ask any man what they are looking for in a woman – you will always find similar answer – one that is good at home and devil in bed. In simplest way, that seems how I understand you from your previous statements. I believe in interactive participation, mutual stimulation is necessary. Like you said, knowing how to keep your partner’s interest is necessary. This is consistent with your belief that both must grow together, but not assume each other’s personality for that will be boring – but grow separate and independent so that your mixture would always be savory and unanticipated. The surprise flavor that you bring together makes each event seems adventurous and not just repeatition. Reading jab’s interaction here, I will not be surprise to learn that she too subscribes to this idea. If my statement is incorrect, I want you and jab to tell me, then I will know that my synapses are not firing right.
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We were both married before and he was single for 13 years before he met me so naturally, he had other relationships, one lasted for 9 years even. As you have experienced, when you finally found your soulmate, it is like coming home, it feels like you have known each other forever and would want the best for each other. Here is another theory that I would like some confirmation as to its veracity. I was told once that men prefer nice girls for girlfriends but would always marry good girls. When I enquired what the distinction was, apparently nice girls go to work, go to bed and then go home whereas good girls, go to work, go home and go to bed. Do you concur with this assertion?
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We were both married before and he was single for 13 years before he met me so naturally, he had other relationships, one lasted for 9 years even. As you have experienced, when you finally found your soulmate, it is like coming home, it feels like you have known each other forever and would want the best for each other. Here is another theory that I would like some confirmation as to its veracity. I was told once that men prefer nice girls for girlfriends but would always marry good girls. When I enquired what the distinction was, apparently nice girls go to work, go to bed and then go home whereas good girls, go to work, go home and go to bed. Do you concur with this assertion?
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Pinay - following jab's theory on the the "new menu" how can your husband distinguish the taste of hamburger as oppose to the steak, when what he had all the time is the steak? Would the ability to distinguish the different taste came from the experience of tasting different menu? KB can you follow the logic here? Please explain as you may have the educated and discriminating palate that I do not have.
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The rules of engagement and the boundaries that each partner confines themselves is what attracts me to my wife. I told her during the courtship that we will have rules that if it is broken, it gives us the option of freedom. To which she responded, that a strong relationship should not be constrained by rules that can suffocate. It must be guided by our own commitment and devotion with each other, guided by our understanding that can stretch to give support and strength in times of one's weakness. All she asked is for me to have the strength to admit my mistakes and to face my responsibility. It is consistent with my belief that if there is a control that should be enforced, it must come from the strength of our respective love for each other. We have been married for 35 years, and I do not regret it. Perfection is beyond imperfect mind and the women may have a better understanding of men being imperfect by nature. Well, I do not know whether I must include Tasio in this category. His imagination is perfectly tuned that if caught with another woman, his imagination that he is with his wife will provide a full justification. he!he!he!he! That is the byproduct of your hypothesis on imagination Tasio.
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I am from the old school. To raise a family, it is necessary to have the blessing of your church. Civil marriage forms the inviolable social contract, it is the church marriage that makes it the commitment. I am still in the process of understanding the benefit of same sex marriage in the society. I may have my share of flaws, but there is a line that I will not cross.
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I never tell my husband what he can do or not, I would have not been attracted to him in the first place if I can manipulate him around my little finger but during courtship, we discussed the rules of engagement by which we pledged to abide by as long as we are married to each other. He is fully cognizant that infidelity does not deserve a second chance in my book and vice versa so we trust each other implicitly. He says why would he settle for a hamburger when he can have steak or caviar anytime and I respond, same here.
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As long as we have all our faculties intact, it is only human nature that we will be attracted to someone who can stimulate our senses but it is our higher instincts, our will power or our commitment to our partner that will prevent us from acting on our baser instinct. That is why it is imperative that before you commit to someone make sure you both connect in every level so that when the physical attraction dissipate overtime, you have still have the emotional, intellectual and spiritual connections and many others that would make him or her better than any other. There is also the matter of integrity that you have to retain at all cost to avoid internal strife. Trust and respect has to be earned and are equally paramount as love for any relationship to last. But you are correct, unfortunately with women almost equalling men in the workforce, temptation is prevalent but why would anyone want to jeopardize a wonderful relationship for a moment of excitement? Again, think before you leap, for every action there is ramification so make sure you can live with the long term consequences of your action.
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marriage, civil and/or religious, is not necessary to cohabit and raise family. it is when you want to legitimize claims for each other and your offspring when it becomes necessary. otherwise, your children would be 'lovechild'. come to think of it, children of same sex marriage would be lovechild.
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The exchanges here is getting interesting. Onpaliis ak pani onpan natalapos ak lamet. Mairap la. he!he!he!he!
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Yes thats true jab, my statement stated that my wife trained me to be a good husband. We had a long courtship, three years. And the training started at courtship and I received my certification at marriage. It was in fact the priest who issued the certification. It was first issued by the Mayor of Lipa a month before it was issued by the priest. So I was married twice to her, once civil ceremony and the last one at the church. Why two, because I was told harvest time does not start until it is blessed by the church. he!he!he!he!
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as far as telling your husband what to do with other women 'look but do not touch', is like having brand new menu on the table having able to see, feast with his eyes, smell with with nose, salivate all he can yet he can't taste it. that is very cruel. a husband who abide by your command is true to his marriage. however, would it be nice for him to do just what you want without telling him? and what is it to prevent him from cooking his own dish similar to what you put on the table and eat it too behind your back? i might add this practice work on either sex and not exclusive for men.
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i think youre making miscalculation with bnp. read bnp last statement in response to mind before this one.
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If you are under the impression that I think marriage is nothing but a financial arrangement, then I must have failed miserably in articulating my points of view. To clarify myself, I happened to be in the minority of women who ended up paying a cash settlement to my ex after 26 years of marriage, waiving any children support just to get my freedom from a controlling European husband. Then I insisted on a pre-nup agreement with my current husband of 7 blissful years to maintain my financial independence at the same time assure his 3 children who were used to having Filipino nannies that their inheritance is intact and to reassure my two children as well that I will always be there for them. I am talking about my business experience advising and listening to ex-wives or wives of prominent clients who chose to turn a blind eye for their betterhalf infidelities just to maintain their good lifestyle. One can see that they are living their lives in quiet desperation and yet, they felt trapped and there is nothing sadder than to see someone pretending things are okay when she knows otherwise. I believe in empowering women, that sky is the limit for those who apply themselves, that if they are willing to work hard and focus all their energy towards realizing their dream, then it will happen. Most young men and women in this day and age, prefer to marry someone who can stimulate them not only physically but intellectually and emotionally and on practical aspect, someone who are their equal in terms of educational attainment and earning power. I am actually a diehard romantic who prefer to see sunset as I walk barefoot in some deserted beach through the eyes of my soulmate. I hope I made myself clearer now than a mud Jab. But you are right, life is too short so as long as we can live with the ramification of our actions, then it is our life to live. I think BNP is loyal to his wife for she will never tolerate any indiscretions from him, he can look as long as he does not touch as I always tell my husband.
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It will be foolish for me to throw away the training I had for long time under my wife. She had invested time to train me as a good husband, I have invested time learning to be good husband.he!he!he!he!
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i dont think bnp meant what he said about 'personal experience'. that is like a kid saying 'i didn't do it' about eating all cookies from the jar when his mom clearly see crumbs on the side of his lips. regardless, only you know the 'real' score. it is not our business unless you open up to million of readers reading your infamous
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as for the trophy wife, she has a choice. no one is pushing her to commit in such agreement. prenuptial offer some kind of protection for both. this can be a stepping stone for her next quest like the one made in hollywood. anna nicole smith, for those who are not keeping score, is one example. divorce with or without prenuptial, one should be able to tuck his/her tail and move on without many fuss. splitting a family in two will not always be equal.
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for pinay who is looking at marriage as a financial agreement, her statement make some sense. any story has at least two sides. man has been always blame for leaving the wife for a another woman. from the point of view of many 'stranger' outside looking in, it was his fault. she was good to him. how could he do it. the truth is nobody know the whole story of any couple split except the two people involve. whatever it is, one has given up. the relationship has gone south. as to whose fault it is, it does not matter. in any relationship, it has to evolve. it has to grow. a wife who decide to stay home to take care of husband and kids maybe okay at first. once the nest is empty, one or both might realize this is not what he/she wanted. his flame is still burning. she maybe waning. meantime, his office office secretary might be offering alternative. this role can be reverse at this day and age. it doesn't have to be him all the time despite what is obvious. for the role reversal, just look at paul mccartney latest marriage and eventual divorce. while it maybe a bitter pill to swallow we all lost a friend or two at one point or another. as was said before, one door closes opens up another. look around you. what if tomorrow someone dearly you love left? are you ready? the journey of marriage was exciting when the hormones was in command. the children it brings double your effort. as one age thru this journey, one lags behind. this will be the test of that marriage. how one respond to it depend on your adaptation of your relationship. regardless of the outcome, the time spent should be sufficient to carry you to the next level. if you can't see that far, perhaps you are getting behind. splitting assets into two, she can do the same thing. who cares what others think. the others can't give you whatever makes you happy. if you decide to be alone, that is alright too. blame him for finding younger one? perhaps you didn't adapt. you forgot to do your 'homework'. blame her? she always a 'slut'. it's your fault you brought home one. as to prenuptial, this is the product of many split/divorces. man/woman should be able to move on without the guilt feeling regardless whose fault. it is nobody fault. he wants more, she is not interested. he could be she.
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Date: Tuesday, August 17, 2010
I wholeheartedly agree with BnP with his assertions with his first three sentences. As far as the last sentence is concerned, forget it.It is like believing somebody who is selling you the London bridge. It just ain't so! he he he!
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... manlukso-lukso ed kawali ...
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Araman labat kunoy matakken ya sira tan makakapal lay kaliskis (siksik?) da. Ag dala kuno nayarian so malukso-sulso ed kawali no ipritom, hehehe
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Anto? Makapasawa sirin so sirad baybay ya naynay?
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I do not think that the sweeping statement, "normally the older men trade their wives for a younger broad" has general applicability. I have seen older men who despite their healthy sexual appetite will not dream of leaving their wives. It is the comfort that you develop that makes stick to your commitment, although side dish from time to time may unknowingly be permitted. (Statement not based on personal experience).
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I beg to differ with your assertion. Older men normally trade their first wives with a trophy wife once they attained some success with the support of their first wives who normally give up their profession to stay home, have children and nurture them at the same time provide a loving and conducive stress free environment for their husbands from their busy quest for power and success. He may lose half of his networth upon divorce but normally, his lawyer will advise him to get his second trophy wife to sign a pre-nuptial agreement to protect his children's inheritance. So it is not as rosy as you painted it for any bright, pretty young women to aspire for especially when they have to sleep with these old men. But how do you explain the fact that when a man is decisive in his decision making process, he is praised as an excellent leader and yet when a woman acts the same way, she is a bitch. And that if a woman thinks logically or intelligently, she will be told that she thinks like a man.
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To: in matrimony
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Date: Tuesday, August 17, 2010
I think society is nicer and gentler with women and women have more things to celebrate than men. The most important advantage is that women live longer than men and they can inherit a man’s name. When Mr. Old Rich Man marries a pretty young lady, she becomes a trophy and is known as Mrs. Old Rich Man. When Mr. Old Rich Man dies, she becomes the boss of the house name and assumes the role of Mr. Old Rich Man. But when Mrs. Old Rich Woman marries a young man, he is a toy and would still be known as Mr. Young Man. He does not inherit the old lady's name and is a second class among Mrs. Old Woman’s peers. When Mrs. Old Rich Woman dies, Mr. Young Man gets meager or fights with the rich old lady’s old children for his inheritance. At his back, he will be known in society as Johnny gold digger. Society is cruel to men and is not accepting of the man when it comes to inheriting wealth through matrimony. Why? Think about it…
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Your definition explains why most men prefers women half or less their age especially as they grow older and more successful. Another advantage of men over women is the fact that when men marry someone half their age, it signify success whereas when an equally successful woman marry a man younger than her, society in general regard it negatively even in this day and age.
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Date: Monday, August 16, 2010
What is sexy? At age sixteen, it is her body that is sexy. At age twenty, it is still her body that is sexy. At age twenty five, it is still her body that is sexy, At age thirty, it is her body and her mind that is sexy, At age thirty five, it is still her body and her mind that is sexy, At age forty five, it is her mind and a part of her body that is sexy, At age fifty, it is her mind and how she dresses that is sexy, At age fifty five, it is her mind and the dress that is sexy, At age sixty, it is her mind and her money that is sexy, At age sixty five, it is her money that is sexy, At age seventy, it is gold digging Johnny who is sexy! ( he,he,he,)
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There you go again, Wilma, you are advertising your pan de sal and at the same time playing brownie politics. I think you should donate some dough to Dahman, to compensate for his fees in maintaining this site.
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The Oscar winning Canadian filmmaker, (aside from James Cameron) Brigette Berman did a documentary on Hugh Hefner which will be released soon. I am sure most of the guys here wish they can also live his way of life, the envy of most men. In an interview to promote the film, he was asked what he find sexy in a woman. He said "sexy is a beautiful smile, a bright conversation and a sense of humour". So there you go ladies, we all can aspire to be sexy by this definition. For me, a man who knows what he wants in life and pursue it with passion without hurting anyone in the process, secure with himself, optimistic in nature and have a good sense of humour is what I find attractive. What turns you on I wonder?
From: Wilma F Ventura
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Email: richardsbakery@yahoo.com
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Remote Name: 76.244.161.150
Date: Monday, August 16, 2010
My Special gift to Mayor Ron Morrison. National City California. Please click the link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=La-mNQFBuCs
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Happy week end to you too jab. One of this day, I might run to you in one of my trip to Palo Alto. I happen to like mingling with the Asian graduate students there at Stanford U. In my stay there last June, I enjoyed the gardens especially at the hospital. You do have good salad there too, and it is inexpensive.
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happy weekends everyone...
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Behind the behind - is the secret to a long marriage. Isn't there is a song to that? Can't say you will have the full view of the legs if you are looking from the front, the beauty of the legs is always seen from the behind view. he!he!he! Just came from a picnic with your Santa Barbara folkmates, the Padillas. Boy they are married to their Black lable - until I opened the Balvenie and smelled the aroma, then it is bye-bye Johnny.
From: K B
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Date: Saturday, August 14, 2010
I'm sort of dense today after a few swallows of siok tong. Did you say following behind or following the behind? Please clarify. Thank you very big.
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As it turns out, KB is my mother's second cousin so does that make him my second uncle? What a small world indeed, just phoned my cousin from Vallejo and most of them are going home as well for the whole month of Nov so we plan to have another reunion back home, should change your flight KB so you can meet your poor relations finally. Grandma Liling, that grandpa Camelo's wife died a few years ago and she must have been so ancient as she looked like a grandma already when I was a teenager.
From: BnP
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You used it properly tasio, which means always following behind. he!he!he!
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Sorry, to me, tailing means always at the back, always following. I did not mean the other thought, an afterthought. I had a wrong choice of word because I'm not like KB who chooses his words properly. I'll stop my rhyming and shut my mouth right now.
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Date: Saturday, August 14, 2010
Forty years ago at the prime of his rear, BnP was De Vinci’s David, proud of his look, Forty years later, haggard and tired with years, I wonder if his front look didn’t droop, Because as usual he still talks like a Romeo, With girls around playing roles of a cameo, But I wonder what is he in real life? Maybe, he is always tailing his wife. ( Just because I love to tease you, hehehehe)
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Date: Saturday, August 14, 2010
Do not give too much credit to KB, he is just showing you the San Carlenian side of him - to act lesser than that would be discrediting his birth right nature. This is beside the point that both of us are San Carlenian too. But, we cannot deny our nature, friendly, loving caring and good looking. Intelligence is inherent so I try not to stress it. he!he!he!he!
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I don’t know KB but I guess he is smart and pogi, Because when he writes he chooses the right word, With his cousin like Pinay in the same category, My guess is a Venus like product of the Lord! People would say how in the world I know, Because I haven’t seen them and have no clue, Well, people would look as we want them to appear, When our brains draw their front and their rounded rear. he,he,he,
From: K B
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Yes, sankanayon kami. She must be good-looking as all my relatives are, He he he!
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Sankanayon kayo manaya, kanian pareho kayon atagey so abilidar (paltik) yo. galaw ko labat itan he!he!he!he!
From: K B
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To: Pinay
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Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
Please contact me at my e-mail address. Salamat na balbaleg.
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parents have...
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Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
Parents, ultimately, has the responsibility of making sure their children attain the highest education their children are capable of. Scholarships are a way for these parents to offer something BEYOND what they can’t financially. We do have public schools from K-4th year high school. Public elementary level is still free and fee at the public high school level is nominal. Some of the brightest minds can still be found in public schools. At most, parents should be held accountable for that much otherwise we ourselves perpetuate this mentality of “freebies”. Students should also be held accountable for their part in any scholarship program. Unless there is unlimited resources available, grantors are better off stressing local colleges and following those colleges’ in-house requirements, i.e. maintaining a certain grade each term, working part-time, etc. And you only need one scholar to maintain a non-profit org. standing here in the US. The process of application is tedious and will take time.
From: yols
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Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
Tibbs, it is understandable that our children will know more than we do since they live in a bigger world than we do, but as I tell my kid whenever possible, that I do not care to be her friend. Instead, to allow me to be her mother first. Friends we can be when we’re both grown up, hehehe. Don’t just throw those ribs on the barbie, try marshmallows on a stick:) I hope time with the family went well,... from Yosemite to Yellowstone, here’s to the young’uns!
From: Pinay
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
You all have great ideas and once again, we have proven that together we can make a difference. Most alumni and Filipino associations have adopted the scholarships program here. I have 6 students (my nieces and nephews) whose tuition fees I am financing from kindergarten to college for I believe that is the best way to help them have a better future as well.I also adopted what my father did for us, that was to pay the full tuition fee regardless of any scholarship discount they get as an incentive for them to focus in their studies. Microfinance grants small loans at no interest or minimal interest to applicants with proven skills and experience but lack capital to implement their business plan. For the donors, it is a donation that hopefully will be recycled as it is paid by the first receipients. My idea was to ask each donor to provide a lists of people (poor relations or neighbors who are hard workers and need a break) they wanted to help with their contributions through this NGO that we have to set up in order to be eligible for matching funding from KIVA or other international aid agencies years from now. The key is to find someone at home who shares our vision and has what it takes to realize our mission.
From: yols
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To: RE. scholarships
Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
To re-iterate AG’s last post, when choosing a college scholarship recipient, choose from the brightest AND the poorest. Get a list from the local high school who these students are during their junior year along with copies of their last report card. Go to your local college college and get an idea of majors they offer that lead to real jobs or job placements. College tuition is on average 12,000 PhP per semester. Factor in books and other fees, about 15k/semester. From their high school report card, choose students with the highest grade from language and math. I know I’ll get flack for this, but studies after studies show that those two core subjects are used more in job applications. Fly your scholarship intent to those students on your list and depending on how many you can afford to send to college, choose the top high school graduates. Go to your local colleges and speak to one of their administrators. Let them know you will be sending scholars their way, students they will be proud to have in their campus. Sometimes local colleges will offer discounts to grantors.
From: Tasio
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Email: A helping hand
To: jab
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
With limited resources, I have some ideas for you. I will relate a story before I elaborate on the plans. In the late 1980s, there was a poor part time carpenter whose son was about to graduate in high school as an honor student. Because of poverty, the student, who is the eldest in the family, did not plan to go to college, and is a sure wasted talent. Someone offered to help the student go to the local college, ( which is low budget schooling) which he did. After twenty years, all the younger siblings became professional like engineers, etc, with the help of the eldest child. At last, their cycle of poverty was broken, with just a meager help.... Because of our limited funds, we can only concentrate on the brightest students where the rate of return is the highest. Here is what has been tried for the last twenty two years with successful results. 1). In your community schools, inspire the bright students to work hard by giving them prize monetary awards during graduation. You will find out that bright kids are competitive and they would study harder ( that means they would be smarter and knowledgeable) because they understand the effect of the monetary awards. Plaques are okay but they can not spend it for good time after working hard. 2). A lot of bright brains are wasted because of poverty. Help an honor student to go to college even in the local colleges. The effect will be geometric progression, I mean that our Filipino culture always emphasize that we help our siblings. Because you will be helping a bright student, it is natural that his siblings are also bright. When they become progressive, the whole country will slowly benefit. Because of our limited funds, I emphasize bright student for the maximum return of your investment. We can discuss it further if you have questions.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
Definitely, providing that little capital and teaching them to use it properly is actually fitting the proverbial "giving them tools to go fishing."
From: BnP
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Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
I believe the microfinance concept provides an opportunity for families with a little capital to start a business for self sufficiency. If we view family as the center of the community, helping the family will redown to the benefit of the young ones who are member of that family. Education starts at home, and a self sufficient family will have a better opportunity to pursue their education. I view poverty as generating the ills in the society and microfinance is a step to alleviate the status of the family. What status quo there would be if the parents could hardly sustain their families. Only in the class of the rich and mighty you will find people that desire not disturbing the status quo, and do not need the microfinance assistance. Thus stating that the helping the old is less beneficial than helping the young ones is a misplaced analogy. Helping the young ones to further education definitely is also beneficial to the society. I will encourage both ideas.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Friday, August 13, 2010
'give man a fish and he will eat one day. teach him how to fish and he will eat for the rest of his life.' i was looking at kiva.org as you suggested. while the project was noble, i am more interested with the next generation, the young who will be the future. the young generation have potential, the older generations are just surviving. with limited resources, i am more incline to help the young ones so that succeding ones will be better. the older ones are just maintaining the status quo. let me know what you think or have better suggestions.
From: Pinay
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To: KB
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
Yes, my mother's folks are from Tuliao and have a number of Aquinos and Tamayo's relations in California so perhaps I am your poor relations indeed. If you ever wander to Calgary, am just an email away.
From: K B
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To: Pinay
Remote Name: 75.86.183.69
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
Yes, I'm from Santa Barbara although my mother is from San Car. It's too bad you'll be two weeks earlier than me. Of more import is the possibility that we might be related! Does your mom happen to be from barrio tuliao? The Tamayos and Aquinos are from there. No wonder you're so smart and sharp, he he he!
From: Pinay
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To: KB
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
Unfortunately, I will be in the Phil for two weeks only til Nov 15th. And what does STB stand for? If it stands for Santa Barbara (where my mother was from, (Tamayo and Aquino) then google Microfinance or KIVA.org (they have an office in Urdaneta), you will learn everything that you need to know about starting one in your town. The biggest hurdle is finding someone who I can trust so that most of the funds will end up to our target audience rather than the person's pocket. It will also be a huge headache to collect apparently that someone told me I would not want to give this responsibility to my worst enemy. But I have someone in mind who has done it before for profit successfully so I plan to see if he will manage this project for me to earn brown points from St. Peter when he meet him at the Pearly Gates.
From: Pinay
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To: JAB
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
This is a non-profit agency, a way to give back to our town to help empower women who have the necessary skills and business acumen but require little financial help. Most of these women do not have any use for banks, have no collateral except their word/honor and yet when administered properly including some training, they feel empowered and will work hard to earn the trust and respect of their benefactors. Some of them resort to borrowing from loan sharks (5/6), therefore will never get ahead so I thought if we, who were fortunate to have found greener pastures in our adopted countries, can contribute whatever we can afford towards a seed capital once we found a local partner that we can trust then hopefully together, we can make a little difference in the lives of some of the poorest in our town. The key is to find someone locally who has the time, the skills and the compassion to help and guide our prospective clientelle. As AG alluded to in his past postings, we all have the capacity to make a difference and make our world a better place so is there anything more gratifying than seeing some children going to school not hungry because of our little financial help?
From: K B
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Remote Name: 75.86.183.69
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
OK, I'll join BnP in instituting what I would like to call PAYONG GIRLS ACADEMY. He will be the trainer and I would be the technical adviser. I would also suggest that the first 10 applicants would be free and not pay the tuition. Same situation with nice legs. On a more serious matter, I am very interested in what Pinay has mentioned re: microfinancing. I had some desire to do it in my hometown STB but I'm in unfamiliar territory. I would like to know more of it. My plan was to be able to give capital to small entrepreneurs. They have to give back the loan without interest after a set time so that it can be utilized by others. Again , I don't know how this will work. To Pinay, I'm most interested in learning from you the intricacies of microfinancing. I'll be at STB late Nov. and I would like to meet you if possible.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
what is/are your objective(s) on this microfinance you are planning, personally and profesionally?
From: Pinay
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
Your post reminded me of our stay at the Baguio Golf Country club last February. As we were having dinner, a group of retired US military personnel caught my attention for their thunderous laugh and when I looked back where the commotion was coming from, seated among them were two young pretty Filipina girls, quiet as a lamb and by their demeanor, seemed unhappy to be in their company. As they were leaving, one of the men stopped by our table and chatted with my husband. He told him that there was nothing better than living in the Phil. good food, good golfing, reasonable cost of living and especially abundance of nice young girls which keeps him young (he must be wondering why my husband is with an old broad like me). I have to restrain myself from giving him a piece of my mind but unfortunately, it is common to see so young beautiful Filipino girls specially with Japanese businessmen. As to the microfinance agency, I have explored the feasibility of starting one in Binmaley to target women who with little capital maybe able to expand their fish, fruits and vegatables and even ready made clothes businesses. I plan to explore this further when I go home in Nov with someone who have been doing this business before but for profit. Apparently, educating the grantees of these small loans that they have to pay the principal over time so others can benefit from it is one hurdle one has to overcome, the notion that `debts are listed in water` is very prevalent. KIVA, an international NGO that has Microfinance offices in the Phil (has one in Urdaneta) will match any capital infusion for any local microfinance project that has shown success and sustainability for at least 2 years the last time I inquired from them. So what is needed is someone local with the right business skills, interpersonal skills and leadership who is willing to do this on a volunteer basis or for small fee. I am hoping to meet some of our town`s leaders and elders to get their input when I go home. It has worked very well in India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and even in Africa so there is no reason why it will not work in our town so why not join me in this worthwhile endeavor, BNP.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
it will sustain. it will not be sustained.
From: BnP
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Date: Thursday, August 12, 2010
MicroFinance business, a topic you opened at Binmaley forum but no taker. But, if you are thinking of cottage industry that has no global application, it will sustain. Most of this microfinance businesses set up in India, and Vietnam are able to attract interest outside their area of consideration because of global applicability. Call centers in India is now at its peak, and Philippines is running second. Vietnam is now the manufacturer of Stickley furnitures – one that is institutionally known in USA. I know KB will join me in this venture – a training ground for girls caddies, the Payong Girls. I dabble in Golf, while it is the lifeline of KB. Most golf players are economically above average; and businesses are sealed while playing golf. Governor Spines had opened a golf course in Domalanta, outside Lingayen. Well how about training golf caddies that can read the greens, and can stimulate an attract players from all corners of the world. We have our very own Payong Girls, most of them have college level education and able to communicate better than the boys. This is not generated by prurient interest, but purely business venture. For minds not set in the business world, they will think that it is sex business. Seduction build businesses. I am 40% retired, working only as a consultant analyst, I can devote that 40% towards a worthy venture such as this. With golf course, follows the moneyed player and their wives who may want to learn golf also because of the unfounded jealous thought. There is always the martini or after game drinks that will activate night life. Ventinillia of Santa Barbara may move to the coastline. What a better way to support and enhance the life of entertainers – this is a direct quote from KB, not mine.
From: Pinay
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To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Wednesday, August 11, 2010
I fully concur with your position as to how we can make a difference in our family and community. Fully cognizant of the immense sacrifices my parents gave me, I helped finance the education of my younger siblings and now my nephews and nieces for the last 40 years since I left the Phil. Like you, I believe that good education is our passport to a better life and yet our formal education is simply a stepping stone towards any success we could have. Education is a life long process and we can learn from everybody so long as we keep an open mind. What matters is how we apply what we learned, our capacity to absorb, learn and adapt to our new environment. And most importantly, to hold unto our hopes and dreams without compromising our moral values and never forget where we came from. The Philippines is always home to me and I long for the day when it will finally join the emerging countries in Asia. I hope our government in all levels, the bureaucrats, the business sectors as well as the population including all the expats can finally get their act together, put aside our varying self interests and prejudices in favor of what is good for our country and its long suffering population. Everytime we go on a cruise, it pains me to see so many promising young men and women whose very demeanors indicate good breeding and best education their family can provide and yet are consigned to doing menial jobs well below their potential. We are known as the best nannies and maids in the world, these contract workers, who have to pay a ransom just to get these low paying jobs compared to other nationalities, provide our government with most of their foreign currency requirements, a short term fix at the expense of huge brain drain. We are helping other countries like Singapore, Honkong, the Middle East not to mention the West by providing them with well educated nannies, drivers and maids for pittance so that the cream of their society will have time to do less mundane work. Can you imagine spending the peak of your lives doing something well below your education and potential? If you know of effective and cost efficient ways to give back to our town, province or country where you can assure me that we can truly make a difference back home, I am all ears. Beth, I will be interested to know if you are planning to retire in the Phil and plan to set up a MicroFinance project there.
From: BnP
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To: for jab
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Wednesday, August 11, 2010
On August 3, jab posted “the act of licking is the next best thing you can do to a woman when one refuse to use seldinafil citrate. it is known that a tongue is the most powerful part of ones body when it comes to a woman so long as the man knows how to caress ones partner (with his tongue).” This bold statement moved me to think that she is a he. For I have not heard of anyone express in such clarity the feeling of excitement. I may have failed to consider that we are in the presence of modern woman with equal audacity to express their emotion as like men. As I read jab’s posting again, it occurred to me that only woman can think with such compassion and hurt when she thought that a sister is given an unfair treatment. But, I can say that regardless of your gender we treat you as equal when it comes to mental processing – this consideration was left behind in my thought process when I concluded that jab is a man. You got me confused jab, now I know you are trully a woman, your writing reflects that, and I can imagine your walk, your voice your manner are delightfully ambigous ----you are both the experienced, desiring woman and the innocent girl with a saucy charm. My apology, Tasio is correct all the time.
From: Tasio
Town_City: Reflection
Email: How to make
To: Life matters.
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Wednesday, August 11, 2010
We, the Filipino expatriates always think of the country that we left behind. We always find ways to help our relatives and friends. We send balikbayan boxes filled with material goods that are unaffordable by our relatives or filled with our excess materials that they could utilize. This help that we have been sending is what I call the “Band Aid” remedy, a temporary fix to help in the survival... I was asked on how to make our lives matter at all. I tried not to answer the question directly because I might appear insensitive to the majority of people alive, but I decided to give my answer anyway. The best way is to contribute in achieving the purpose of life, which is to improve life and literally prolong life of the future. Wherever we are, the best way to improve life is to inspire the brightest youngsters to achieve their dreams because they are the future who would carry the rest of the population. There are a lot of ways to inspire, with material values or with intangible things. Since the IQ of a person peaks between 18 to 25, to focus on the young would maximize his ability to achieve. I noticed here in America that only small portion of the population carries the bulk of the consumers. This small percent of the population started early in life to dream about their dreams. They are the inventors, the brainy entrepreneurs, the intellectuals, the high professionals, etc, in other words, they were the smart youngsters who had the chance and opportunity to pursue their dreams. This is also true throughout the history of the human experience, that the smartest people carry the whole population in the survival of its culture. The rest of the population are just workers, who work to produce the outcome of the dreams of the dreamers.
From: SHEILA AQUINO
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Email: marie_crownasia@yahoo.com.ph
To: ALL RESIDENTS OF PANGASINAN
Remote Name: 203.87.192.186
Date: Wednesday, August 11, 2010
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From: BnP
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Angano aliwan piesta, onla kad dia ed Waldorf, manpiesta kami - imbitaan ko ray taga San Carlos, tan san dongdong a pising tan sakey tikles a galewey so ipadungo mi ed sika, pakaliketan labat ed pakanengneng na aninom, tan pisalamat ed samay sakey kahon ya persimmon ya inpawit mo nen sakey taon ya angad natan et namnamnamen ko ni. Imbitaan koy Gani, tan panlutoen ko na kanding katubotubo ni saklor to. Tan amy olikba ya manok nen Alarcan so paipawit ko. Amay manlalako na barbecue ditan ed Pacific Is. store ditan ed Union City so pan-orderan ko met na piss bol (fish ball).
From: Asungot
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Remote Name: 71.198.93.222
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Ener may pasen na Fiestay San Carlenian no Aug. 21? Pi post yo pay exact address to nayari. salamat tan mabli agew ed sikayo.
From: Tasio
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Email: Purpose of life
To: Pinay
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Ancient human beings died in their late twenties but gradually the life span increased with time to the present average life span of 80 years. The evolution of life from the single cell to the human being and then the increased of life span is the evidence that Man’s existence on earth is geared towards perfection. The advances made by Man is to fulfill his aspiration to live as long as possible. All the geniuses and Nobel prize winners have their contributions for the sole purpose of enhancing life. So it is assumed that the purpose of life is to prolong life. …If we, as common people like to make our life matter, we should contribute to the enhancement of the next generation in order to fulfill the aspiration of Man to achieve perfection. ( Maybe, Bill Gates is doing this aspiration for perfection consciously or unconsciously with his humanitarian charity). This aspiration for perfection would go on indefinitely as long as human beings are on earth because it is an inherent behavior acquired through evolution... My father made sure that his children are better off than he was and that is also my legacy.
From: Pinay
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To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
That was one of the most profound postings written, I hope it was not as a result of your loved one passing on and if it is, then my heartfelt condolences. It has been 10 years since I lost my father on my birthday this month and yet the void he left in my heart has remained and his legacy and memory will always stay with me and my siblings and hopefully the next generation. My mother followed shortly thereafter and somehow their death made me feel so mortal, as if that imaginary line is gone and I am next in line and therefore felt an awesome responsibility to make sure their legacy lives on. We are all trespassers in this universe and as you aptly said, just a dot in the great scheme of things passing through for such a fleeting moment. So the question is, how can we make a difference and make our mark so our stay no matter how fleeting it was, matter?
From: Tasio
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Email: About Death and Grief
To: Condolence
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
There is a saying that of all the ills common to mankind, the greatest is grief. All of us are vulnerable to grief because human beings can’t escape death. Death is farthest in the mind of most people, even the very old would wish to live for a while. Even when death is expected of a person, still the grief and sorrow in losing the loved one would hit us. The very reason why death is far away in our dreams is because human beings like to live forever, if possible. It is an inherent behavior that we acquired through evolution, when a one cell life grew into the most advanced creature, the human being... The human line has more than five million years of history on this earth, and the knowledge and experience accumulated were passed from one generation to the next. That is why Man’s feelings about death is universal, that we would missed the company of our departed loved ones. We shed tears that they are gone, but we also find consolation that the memories we have had about them are stored in our mind and could be retrieved any time like a mental tape recording... What is sad about death is to think that the departed loved one would not be coming back, that life would not be the same and a new chapter in our life would begin. In our private moments, we would reminisce the good, old times we spent with our loved ones, only to close our mental picture screen in order to go on with our life. But like all problems in this world, grief would be cured by time.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
But, I do limit the freedom to exercise of the other of the same.... delete.
From: BnP
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To: jab
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
I do not see Mr. Mararac's posting here. I see and read BnP's. If Mr. Mararac has that power, he will desire to be the only one posting here so nobody's idea will get through except his. The Webmaster posted the rule of engagement, and if one wanders beyond the parameter of his rules of engagement only him has the ability and power to delete or censor that person. I am quite sure if Mr. Mararac reads your insinuation he will be appreciative for indicating that he has that influence when in fact he had none other than the what the other posters here enjoys. I do appreciate your knightly and scholarly stand to advocate the freedom of expression for I too is a consummate advocate of a person's ability to express his thoughts and ideas. But, I do limit the freedom to exercise of the other of the same. There is no absolute freedom as Socrates intimated - and the limitations were well expressed in your August 8, 2010 posting, and I quote, “i am sure you are aware of freedom of speech so long as that freedom does not impede on others” end of quote.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
i don't give up easily especially if i wanted something or someone for that matter at whatever cost. the nonsense that was said recently here was not one of them. nor do i care to participate. i just want to make sure to everyone especially to mr. mararac, who i found out can play 'God' by deleting and/or preventing certain 'undesirable' poster, censoring someone is not what i wanted. the rest of us should believe that. any form of censor at this day and age is not necessary. anyone can say what they have to say. it is up to the reader to accept or deny reading what it is being written. by not responding to a thrash talk, you and i are exercising a better form of suppression. conversely, when a reader respond to an unfounded accusation, the accuser feels his form of harassment has some legitimation. its all but noise that has no value and some people spend to much time wasting on reading and reacting. ive been to other mb as im sure the rest of you have. scmb has less trash which why i am staying for a little while. there is more to life than worrying about trash. but then again, one mans trash is another man's treasure. i am not one of them to treasure such. i am more interested in helping others with whatever help i can bring. in so doing, maybe somebody out there has something i need and is willing to help me. for those who are staying on the sideline, dont be shy. this board is free. what do you have in mind today?
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
There is ambiance of confrontational culture in any MB especially in the Discussion Corner (DC) where I as BnP never participated. Here at SCCMB have that too for we have posited before that it is ok to attack the idea but not bring it to a personal level. Oftentimes we are unable to separate the idea from the person. But the we can always disengage when necessary. I am not equip for an adversarial relationship thus, confrontation is a road that I try to avoid. We can always listen to the idea, embrace it and from there we can redirect it to where it should belong. The tool for redirection is through the use of your persuasive ability. This is what I call the ultimate exercise of power for its effect may have a continual transformation in the person. During my youth, my Dad always encouraged us to use reason over force. When confronted with a difficult person who will tell you “Ag nayarin balot itan!” taking the immovable position – logic dictates that I must look at his position, acknowledge the importance of it and suggest a better position that results to resolution. A case in point was on the occasion of my finishing undergraduate study, I asked him if I can go with my friends to Hongkong, my first out of the country trip. He simply said that it is out of the budget, not related to the furtherance of my schooling and no educational benefit can come of it. We are always encouraged to reason out, so I responded that journeys are necessary in the formation of our experience which constitutes our developmental foundation. A house with poor foundation will tumble down even with a weak storm; and we will have so many storms in our life. He smiled and said, “you put all your money in the foundation of the house, build it with materials fuertes; you spend your resources and eventually you come with a house with strong foundation but unfinished as you run out of resources to put a roof in it. Can you live in a house without roof? Fresh out of reason, I dropped my shoulder in desperation for I know I can’t be with my friends especially that good looking woman (missed out on the freedom of exploration). He tapped my back and said, all right, you can go, for you gave good rationalization. As you say, the bulireks may have the best tool of persuasion, that look of desperation and disappointment which is the ultimate convincing tool even with stern parents. Yols may have applied that too and still applying it even to her husband, I bet.
From: Claudia
Town_City: Germany
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To: jab
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
as BNP pointed out earlier,we regular posters knew the temperaments of each other and so we are a little bit immune and of course we are here to entertain,if not, we should just tend our gardens ......or read Atlantic City Magazine.BTW ,I go downtown and look for English books to read maybe Chik Lit,my English know how is derioratingly bad.My original intention was to learn the Pangasinan and the English...Maybe it is time for other posters to come in....you're perfectly right,what's next topic,jab?
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
i think much effort has been spent unnecesarily on one unruly poster. this is a free country. in it is a free speech. however, no one has to listen to that free speech unless the reader is interested. trash has been thrown at someone. the intended person being thrown at didn't have to respond unless she feel it was necessary. for those who responded, we all said was was needed from our point of view. i wanted to leave the topic now so we can attain what is important. the others who share our values.
From: Claudia
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To: all irresistibles
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010
the "advantage" could be deceiving,the un movable could feign capitulation,in truth she is the winning party.I say FLEXIBILITY,like the rubber.Its consistence is soft but impossible be crushed down into pieces.And when pushed down to the ground,still as soft as the marshmallow ,regain its form,strength and beauty...fast and easy.Ladies,never lose your conviction!Guten morgen!
From: BnP
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To: P Tasio
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
If I defined “Power” as that ability to impose one’s will irrespective of the resistance of the other – then the statement by itself defines the limitation of the exercise of that power – in that its efficacy lies in the ability to influence. The ability to influence is sustained by the confluence of your resources. Confluence I stated because these resources must be flowing together to be effective and its fluidity lies in the persons ability to use them logically and to his advantage. Brute force could be effective but only temporarily. Anyone subjected to it would do everything in his power to get out of it. One famous Chinese war strategist said, do not corner your enemy to that point of no retreat because they may have to fight to the last breath and win. I am an advocate of self reflection to determine my contribution to a discord, for only the coming to terms with my contribution will increase my ability to influence. Contrary to your comment, I have no conquest for far greater men succumb to women’s persuasive ability which is inherently built in them. I can say, I was a willing participant to a sophisticated show of power that had overwhelmed me. Even your definition of the ultimate “moral man” will not have the enduring resistance. Like KB said, show him a well formed legs in golden sandal straps and he is willing to lose his sanity temporarily.
From: BnP
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To: P Tasyo
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
Then the immovable object failed its nature and ceases to be immovable.
From: Wilma F Ventura
Town_City: San Diego California
Email: richardsbakery@yahoo.com
To: Friends, relatives and family
Remote Name: 76.212.156.127
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
I just want to share with you my humble tribute to my cousin. Araceli Ventura Fernandez.Please click the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xqu6Jzu90lA
From: Pilyosopo Tasio
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To: BnP
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
For every force of action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. That is Newton’s third law of motion. But when an irresistible, unstoppable force is superior to the immovable object, the equation becomes imbalance in favor of the irresistible force so the immovable object has to give in. The great wall of China did not work against the invading Mongols, as an example of history. On a daily life scale, my examples are your romantic adventures and conquests. Can you please elaborate to the minute details so we can understand how it works in true to life experience? hehehe!
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
“What will happen when an irresistible force meets an immovable object?” When I wrote irresistible force, I also mean unstoppable force.
From: whisperer
Town_City: to a dolphin or what?
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
Ha ha ha! Yes, BNP,even the most stubborn baby este! man! would melt like marshmellows...proven many times,ask yols!....whisper in variation like Beethoven's Neunte is good!
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
Yes, whisperer... the most effective means of communication especially when conveyed during intimacy moment evoked by the outburst of excitement. Now, jab, can you confirm your initial to me if it is RS, from San Carlos also, specifically Abanon?
From: same as below
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
we are not animal worshipers but whisperers.WHISPER is our weapon not an ax nor paltoog,a gun I mean...but i whisper sometimes too loud,perdona!,he he he
From: LWr
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To: BNP
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
correction...Dogwhisperer,Lionwhisperer..those were the times when we had dogs and lions here at SCMB..a long time ago...have we got barking dogs and roaring lions here before,where are they now? metamorphosed? Now ,Biology versus Physics,how about that!
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
to have one’s will prevails ... should read prevail.
From: BnP
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
It appears that fireworks occurred during my absence. Pinay, thanks for your concern – I am ok, just have take care of some business and make necessary repairs at home. When I was young, someone posted a question, “What will happen when an irresistible force meets an immovable object?” Of course, the question was meant to be answered with the application of the law of Physics – but when I give it deeper consideration, it can also mean our own personal issues, our interrelations with one another. Global implication of this question had caused destruction of humanity. We dug into our position that no amount of persuasion can move us. I have yet to find the answer to this on the personal level. Someone may say “coexist” but coexisting meaning the ability to ignore one another or acknowledging one another without the actual meeting of the forces. Or, is the answer to it is not disregard, coexist or acknowledgment – but the answer is that there is no such thing as immovable object, or irresistible force. But, there is “Power” that I had defined as the ability to have one’s will prevails over another irrespective of the resistance of the other. And that power exists in our ability to influence one another. What occurred here couple of years ago; when I started posting. Alumna, Dogworshipper, Lion worshipper, D’ Americano joined forces in assailing my position. KB and AG were professionally neutral (he!he!he!) We came to know each other well and become friends. I guess their persuasive ability overpowered me. But, then again, I am docile and very little persuasion is needed to move me.
From: Claudia
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To: Pinay
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
I commend you for your good heart and generousity towards our less fortunate kailian.Actually,one of the main purpose of this Website is to connect, to foster friendship among us Pangasinenses. i say ,that the regular posters of San Carlos City Message Board are friends for life and each of them have their individual"Pappenheimer"( FLAWS),that makes them more human,vurnerable sweet and lovely..I am appealing on you, Pinay to bear and stay with us...
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email: verbal wrestling is over,let's move on
To: yols
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
Ghosts keep on coming back and i am sure "mein Mann" will cut off my fingers and throw my Laptop down the balcony when he knew I keep on coming back to San Carlos City.Where is BNP,please check out if he has still a laptop or a PC,wifey could have stored it in the garage,he he he!As I told you,my neck is still intact,Tibbs is too far away with his caliber .50 and his ax is becoming rusty...Best regards, Tibbs.How about a Pinapaitan lunch for all of us..but not served in the desyerto but under the big mango tree by the river..don't put too much papait...
From: yols
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Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Monday, August 09, 2010
Why is it that when people goad others into an argument, someone almost always disappears from the face of this board? People, have the balls to finish what you start or take part of!!!
From: Pinay
Town_City:
Email:
To: Sniper
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
You might be liable for slander for saying things that are not true so please act accordingly and let this be a warning. I don't know who is providing you with these lies but perhaps another person just like you, a waste of space. Why not ask Gen Rudy Diaz, the person in charge of our class reunion management and disbursements of funds. Please verify the truth and he will tell you that I contributed a total of $ 2,750.00 towards our class 65 reunion, $ 1,000 of which was alloted to the medical mission and the balance for our reunion and our gift to BCHS. I donated a further $ 350.00 that I collected from relatives here to The Black Nazarene Academy. Class 65 had excess funds from our reunion and having contributed the most, I suggested that some of the excess amount be donated to Father Ramirez of the Black Nazarene Academy and some did not agree with me but General Diaz understood my point and decided to donate P 6,500 from the excess funds so with my additional donation of P 8,500 that I sent him, they were able to purchase a much needed speaker system. So next time you do some PI work, please make sure you verify and confirm with people who are in the know and can substantiate their claim, otherwise, you might find yourself being charged with slander. As to medical mission, I advised the organizers that based on my observation and those who volunteered to help the good Fil?American doctors, our objective which was to help the poorest in our town, was not met, they were not given tickets for the free consultations and prescription drugs, rather they were distributed to the friends and families of those who were empowered to help organize the mission. I asked those in the know in our town and was told these medical missions has always been very problematic so I told the organizers there that I decided to help directly those who are making the difference in our community. I can not believe the webmaster will allow someone to expose and slander people in this site.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
i was mistaken. it seems that orca has ax to grind instead of reader. why do people like to wash their and others laundry in public?
From: jab
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
for those who are interested in financial education, check this website www.bobbrinker.com
From: jab
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
now that the truth is out, it's time to lend a ounce of understanding to mr. tibbs. while i agree to what has been expressed here, i do not agree to what 'mililikna' has expressed. adding insult to an injury will not heal wounds. i hope we all find a speck of forgiveness even though tibbs is not asking for it for only he knows why he can't. let's not crucified the guy. pinay shouldn't leave this mb just because of a bad apple. among bad apple are some good one if you care to look. try to accentuate on positive instead of negative. i think this mb has many good qualities than any other. for those who want to hear, i do not agree on censuring people on what they have to say or expressed. as was said here before, we learn through our and others mistake. what is there to learn if we shut people up? after they dont shut up, what is next? let's not forget the history of ferdinand and benigno from not so distant past.
From: Mililikna
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Remote Name: 75.43.214.161
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
Now everybody has some negatives to say to Tibs, Alacran or Orca. I for one has the same impression with this guy as the best among the worse in matters dealing with others. Aloof, Arrogant and Tactless whenever he touches the keys in his computer and think for himself that he is an authority on everything. What an HYPOCRITE? I bet, that when he is overboard in the blue Pacific or Atlantic nobody will ever attempt to rescue him and everyone especially in this MB will be cheering those wild sharks to devour him to pieces. This man will never change, he is always a "SHOW OFF"
From: Claudia
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Email:
To: Pinay
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
My nephew,son of my sister is based in Calgary.My husband and i have been planning a short visit.I understand your point of view.I will keep in touch,but one thing I wanted to tell you, I am still interested with the Micro Finance Agency Project focusing on women,most probably after retirement. I quit working...
From: Pinay
Town_City:
Email:
To: Clarification
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
The poem I posted was sent to me by a close friend who mistakenly thought it was a portion of a prose I wrote more than 3 decades ago. I forgot all about it, the title and contents until the someone special in my youth told me he read it and was touched by it but can not remember except how it made him feel then. So I was intrigued and searched for anyone who may have remembered reading it and when a friend sent me a truncated copy of Beyond Forgetting, claiming it as a portion of my prose like Claudia, I thought it articulated how I felt then but at the same time incredulous that I could have written such a moving poem but not familiar with RC's poems or body of works, I accepted my friend's word at par. I deviated from my usual MO that when something is too good to be true, it is not true and for that I apologize to you all, including our self appointed sniper here. Like Tasio, I value my honor as life itself and am truly sorry for this slip-up. I never presented myself as a person of letters or anything, but like any Filipino who has been living abroad for longer than what I spent in the Phil, I enjoy bantering with like minded people like most of you here but prefer to read postings where I can learn something or amuses me. I believe that how we treat others is a reflection of our internal strife or struggles. I consciously avoid any toxic people in my life but unfortunately, I have no control in this website so much to my regret, I have to bid farewell but it was great while it last. AG, Tasio, you are a rare breed and thank you for your kind words, I look forward to reading more of your reflections and wish you well. If you wish to see our magnificent Rockies with BNP with your spouses, I shall be happy to be your host and tour guide, he knows how to contact me. The same goes for Claudia, Beth, am so happy you found your soulmate and all the best to you. Perhaps when you finally retire like I have done for almost 10 years now, I hope we can meet in Bolinao. I am planning to take all my extended family for two days in Covelandia Resort in Nov after our cruise in China as it was highly recommended by a friend here who was just there. And BNP, your silence is deafening, where are you my dear friend, hope you are well. And to you sniper with your many aliases, beware you might lose your right to post in this website as well if you continue to wantonly ignore to their rules. I have nothing but pity for you, you must have been raised with criticism as a child, have been denied being loved unconditionally that is why you are so bitter and vindictive and lashing out at everyone. Words, hurting words especially once you uttered them can never be taken back so I hope you do not treat your family and friends like you treat most of us here, otherwise, you will be alone and lonely. Change is only the constant thing in life so it is not too late for you to change, I am sure you are smart enough to decipher that your current MO is not working so for your sake, unless you can say anything nice, shut up!!!
From: Tasio
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
The best thing for you to do is to apologize to Pinay for calling her names, don't you think so?
From: Tasio
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
Mr. Tibbs, I think you are taking your role as a sniper and a snipe very seriously. This is just a Zarzuela grande where we play our characters, using pen names that are not registered. We are here just to entertain, no more no less. So if Pinay copied a poem, her good hearted intention was to entertain the readers. I said it because she had no motive except just to exercise her brain and entertain, same as I do. Profit and praises are beyond our thoughts because we are just using unregistered pen names. “ SORRY THAT YOU MISUNDERSTOOD HER GAME, TO HAVE FUN AND ENTERTAIN WAS HER ONLY THEME, IF SHE WAS SEEKING HEIGHTS OR FAME, SHE COULD HAVE USED HER REAL NAME”... I remember during the spring of 2008, someone called us posters morons and you came down on him, calling him lowly, bottom sucking scum, don’t you remember it? I remember it because I admired and praised you for your principles.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
i think it's very offending for a filipino in usa to think he's better off than his/her compatriot in united kingdom or canada for that matter. youre still 'pango' where ever you are.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
looks like he took my advice. he's probably asleep now. no offense taken. i just react as it comes. the nice thing being anonymous brings.
From: Claudia
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To: jab
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
you read I am so poor that I do not have even a shirt on my back...I do not care,it has not been my ambition to get rich or the like.we ,here in Europe ,we live very modestly and I tell you mr Tibbs just can't get out of the spell of judging the BOOK BY ITS COVER! he has to read up inside the inner,explore the core,he might find out some hidden wealth...monetary and non monetary...our scmb folkasare out in the nature...
From: Claudia
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To: jab
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
You might have noticed ,we have been like this here at scmb,for years now,he he he.We fight, make up and embrace ! But i tell you,in truth, we are and stay good friends.Welcome to the club...stay a while! ( a famous quote from Faustus)...am on sick leave that is why I have enough time to wrestling with the "wild beast" over here!! Don't take it seriously!
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
it looks like we have a case of jekyll and hyde today. did tibbs woke up on the wrong side of the bed? or did alarcan forgot to take his chill pill? whicn one is it zorro? i am a bit confused when you are on a tear crossing almost everyone. i am sure you are aware of freedom of speech so long as that freedom does not impede on others. another case of insomnia for you maybe? try swimming with water on it. you'll be surprise how calming the water will be. maybe you'll be a better person tomorrow.
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
To: Tiburon,Alacran,Orca
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Sunday, August 08, 2010
Calm down and cool off your wild temperaments!Be reminded that acting like you do is simply a joke.Your shout outs are nothing but a Hilfeschrei,a cry of helplessness!Get a life and let others live their own.Try to be happy!
From: Claudia
Town_City:
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To: Ta'llibs Tibbs
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
and just because you are a sniper,that gives you the right ta assail Pinay here at Manong's Website?You are not allowed, as you said in this "ocean" to lash out "provoking,offensive..insulting messages"to Pinay's address.Disregard me, I am tough as you must have noticed already.Pls.read the User's agreement...you must have forgotten,you are not in your own backyard....just a reminder,..Maabig a yabi,Maabig a buklas!
From: Tasio
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
It looks like Tibbs is always waiting to ambush, and is meticulously laying IEDs on the ways and byways. I think his name would be appropriate if we call him Mr. Tal’ibbs or just Tal’ibs. What do you think? hehehe.
From: A G
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To: NT
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
You did transport me to my dreamy world of knights and castles, when all men were chivalrous and all women were treated as ladies. Thank you for being my friend.
From: Knight NTown
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To: AG
Remote Name: 71.111.18.221
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
It is my priviledge and honor to be one of your friends. You are a generous and a faithful gentleman especially to our beloved, dear Claudia. At this time, the Queen Elizabeth of Court, summoned his trusted advisers, dukes and knights in her palatial conference room. She is planning to bestow you the Knighthood of Bolinao Royal Kingdom. I am not at liberty to discuss with you, more of the details of what transpired inside the royal room. I will visit someday, the royal city of San Carlos. I will send my trained message-carrying dove to your castle for whatever development I can share with you. Thank you!
From: Claudia
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
No,Tibbs don't know about it and I do not really care if you are a billionaire that you can afford to construct an empty pool over the big pond and I don't care a bit if you have one.Please don't get disappointed but I do not know how to swim and I prefer to swim with a swim instructor from my hometown,and only in a pool or in the China Sea ,not in an empty swimming pool.I have the feeling that because you lost the game against Pinay ,you have hard feelings.
From: Claudia
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
No Tibbs, I haven't ,sorry to disappoint you but I do not go for one night stand in an empty swimming pool in the USA.I am a marrying type of woman and not a sex addict.I tell you not to exalt yourself high nor think you are the best "Hengst" on earth,as Pinay said it is not good to praise oneself high...be a little bit humble and come down from your self made throne....
From: PTasio
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
This morning after reading the postings of Pinay and Tibbs, I thought about human diversity, even for people who came from the same culture. The bantering mimics what is going on in Afganistan war, Pinay is the establishment and Tiburon is the Taliban, a hit and run guerilla fighter, hehehe. … Because we are products of our own environment, we evolved to promote our vested interest, which is the lifestyle that we are accustomed. Human beings started as egalitarian where everybody were equal but “survival of the fittest” evolved people to find their places in the food chain.. But here is what makes people equal, that we are born and we die because we could not live forever. Everybody like to be happy while alive which is our goal for ourselves and for descendants. We work hard to make ourselves comfortable, in the food chain where we belong. But when we die, we all end up in the same place, forgotten except for some people who will go down in the history book... My conclusion is that whatever and wherever you are, whether you live simply in a remote village or a bustling city, as long as you are happy with your life, YOU HAVE IT MADE! I used to feel uneasy when I see poor people in the villages, thinking that they are missing the “good life”. But nowadays when I think about their lifestyle, I think they are happy in their own way and luckier because the stresses in their lives are very simple. As long as they don’t starve to death, would they like to think about the house mortgages, cars, and college tuition fees, the summer vacations, “ the casino trip, hehehe” etc, ? Remember, you and I are just a dot who came to earth as a product of accident (sperm and egg union) and would die as one of the incidents in the long series of human existence. Why am I here on Earth, I don’t know. All I know is that we are just visitors, and we should not upset Earth by following its house rules.
From: Claudia
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
You are wrong ,rca.There is no pride,she said but said they were victims.Why in the world would you think it is you she was talking about..no one said it was an Orca ,or Tiburon, or a Horse ..so why take the bait?it is not you she was talking about.
From: Pinay
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To: Alacran
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
I meant the right to judge us
From: Pinay
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To: Alacran
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
Now we know why you are single, why would anyone spend even a minute with someone so negative as you are? BNP told me that you are actually soft and likeable in person, so I wonder why you are so obnoxious in this website? Could it be that you can not stand to see anyone happy? If I tell you that my networth is as much as he has, what would that make me? You simply can not lash out at people like you do, it does not become you for I know you are smarter to know better. Just because you have everything that most of us can only hope to have does not give you to judge us all so negatively in this public forum just based on our postings. I hope this is the last time you attack me in public like this otherwise, I have better things to do with my time.
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
there's nothing wrong with having help in the house in order to attain your husband need. some people prefer whatever is the situation they are in so long as the money is not an issue. the old tradition of having a wife cook, iron, spoon feed a husband is not what it used to be anymore. beside, why would you want to make love to your 'maid'?
From: Claudia
Town_City: I know now jab is a she..
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
I agree with you jab,indeed, it is uncomfortable for us but the solution is far from here ,not that we are indifferent for her plea but we can't simply go deeper on private affairs.We are not acquainted with her ,not familiar,not like the regulars here,we know each others "Pappenheimer"...Let her voice out and she will certainly have peace.Recurring hard feelings after a break up or disappointment is a heavy burden ,but if we forgive we can soon move on and forget..
From: jab
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
perhaps 'reader' has something to say to get it off her chest. while it maybe none of our business, she chosed this medium in airing her side of the story. where she is maybe or which computer she is using is irrelevant in relation to her 'grievance'. she is obviously compelled to air her side. however, reader has to be careful in making accusation which maybe libelous, or that she maybe accusing the wrong person. in letting reader air her side of story, one can only hope she will bury the hatchet once and for all.
From: Claudia
Town_City: a swimming pool without water..
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To: Pinay
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
one wise lady from las vegas wrote me..."I knew of a guy who keeps on inviting ladies to swim in his swimming pool, a pool without water in it"...and she was wise enough not to risk her life ,did not jump in it..she has inspected the pool and saw there was no water in it,had not risk her life...good for her.
From: Claudia
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To: Pinay
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Saturday, August 07, 2010
some of us,do understand what they read but not capable to DISCERN, a wise saying from a Canadian guy.....we do not go for one night stands,we are marrying types,not sex addicts..
From: Pinay
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To: Tiburon
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
As Reagan used to say, there you go again, failing once more to recognize my inside joke when I said that he was born to be served and I love to serve. I thought you are smarter to have surmised by now that at this juncture in my life, I am free to do what I want without any constraints and certainly am nobody's patsy. He insisted that we have a cleaning lady so we can have more time together and send his shirts to the cleaners. I chose to spend the rest of my life with him because we share the same interest to see the world and experience other cultures. We share the same positive outlook in life, laugh at life's little foibles and enjoy each other company over any other. A G posted sometime ago how true love manifest itself between two people who spent a lifetime sharing the same values, interest, ideals and aspirations in life. I hope that one day you will meet your soulmate so you can understand how wonderful and lucky I feel to have someone special who will be there for me in good times and bad times, someone who colors my world and look forward to waking up with each day. Life can be very fleeting and there is so much to do, to see and experience so lighten up and try not to be the prosecutor, judge, jury and the executioner in this website, we are not perfect like you are! Live and let live, remember everybody loves to be with someone who can make her feel good about herself so try it on your next conquest and all the best!
From: yols
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Remote Name: 69.103.21.167
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Logic tells me it's not bnp, claudia. My money is on nagasaki, hehehe. Hello from yosemite.
From: Pinay
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder indeed! I am the envy of my friends and colleagues for managing to win his heart and mind. I am glad I married him before I read his resume otherwise I would have been intimidated with his success but just to prove I am not marrying him for his wealth, I insisted on a pre-nuptial agreement just in case you are wondering for I don't need anyone to support me. He is beautiful inside/out, a man of high integrity, intelligence and yet unassuming that he can walk with kings and paupers with ease and confidence. Most importantly, he respects me and treats me like his equal and yet makes me feel like a young girl so, any more question, Alacran, Tibbs and what ever aliases you are using? Here is my question to you, why are you alone and lonesome, all by yourself with all your bravado and apparently, good looks? Are you really happy with all your independence and one night stand? You read me right, I maybe naive about the ways of men even at this stage in my life, but I am glad to be spared from any life altering experiences that may negatively impact my positive outlook in life and faith in humankind. If I have to live my life again, I won't change a thing, how about you? It is advisable not to judge a book by its cover for what matters is inner beauty, look in the mirror and make sure you like and love what you see for our eyes is the window to our soul. And remember always, judge not so you will not be judged. All the best to you and hope you are happy making me mad!
From: Claudia
Town_City: in defense of our toothless husbands
Email:
To: Tibbs
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Before you despise our husbands of toothlessness, I tell you now ,in my case,that we agreed that one big tooth is enough for both of us ,if you understand. And if you look at Pinay's hubby,he has something you might have not....he he he..guess what!
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
To: alacran
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Ditto, Tibbs,, read to the eleventh times...I meant not Pinay but the Lady Reader..he he he, a Bagel- or Pitbull,that barks loudly, so she must not bite and run..he he he.understand,capito,verstanden?Maybe BNP is playing a fool on us..April! April!
From: Claudia
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
How do you know..tibbs..it is love expressed..love has no teeth ,Tibbs,if you will,mine has no teeth either he he he...I love it that way .Tibbs,believe me, ha ha ha!
From: Claudia
Town_City: is a lady with teeth
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
No,no no.Tibbs,not an old lady without teeth. She can be a courageous young lady with BISS!Be careful,barking dogs can be a"Bagel" ,rabid or a female Pit bull.Lady Reader,don't hit and run nor bite and run,stay your ground!Dance your Tango to the end.
From: Tasio
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
I was had once not too long ago, but this time, I'll not be taken again.
From: yols
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Tibbs, server she's using is coming from Maryland, but gov't. servers can be accessed anywhere in the continental US. ______ Nagasaki, I'd unroll the red carpet but I'm on my way out. Let me hazard a guess, you are somewhere in California, Bay Area?
From: Reader
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 162.99.228.143
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Yes, I am an intern, on temporary NTE appointment with NIH.
From: Pinay
Town_City:
Email:
To: Reader
Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
I, too noticed your posting and thought it was one of the more serious postings so I look forward to reading more postings from you. I am sure it is the limited storage capacity for this website that automatically deletes old postings rather than singling out any posters. I also think some of the male posters here like to tease or are just recalling their single wild days, perhaps if truth be told their wild James Bond's fantasies. There is saying that dogs that bark the loudest do not normally bite so don't take things seriously. The women posters on the otherhand, are more serious and simply want to share the wisdom of their life's experiences. You made references to my prior postings, I was only expressing things based on my experience and that of my women relatives/friends. I happen to believe that we should act on what we believe in and if doing so, goes against the moral values instilled in us as children, then we have to make sure that we can live with the ramification of our actions and not lose our soul in the process. I never experienced being subjected to the humiliation of infidelity but perhaps because I will never tolerate it. It is when they know that we can do as well with them or without them or knowing that we rather lose everything than compromise our principle that make them think twice before succumbing to any temptations presented to them. I have been told that among Filipino men, having a mistress is a status symbol, a sign of power and wealth so I count my blessings not to have married a Filipino. Of course, it is a two way street for any relationship to last, women who knowingly engage with married men should not be surprised that that they may end up joining the ex-wives club sooner rather than later. On the otherhand, mistakes are necessary as long as we learned something from them. One of the best advice I got from my father was, "when in doubt use your eyes and your ears and not your mouth for you will learn more by listening."
From: Zorro
Town_City:
Email:
To: Reader
Remote Name: 72.193.159.240
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Are you a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde? You are coming from the same office as he does. Or, you're trying to put the wool over our eyes.
From: Reader
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 162.99.228.143
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
By gosh, no I am not the mother of the child, she is still gaga over him. Alumna, I am over him - will not waste my time on someone like him, you can only be young and foolish once. He still drolls over me.
From: Alumna
Town_City:
Email:
To: Reader
Remote Name: 71.199.160.154
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Your postings hint a sense of urgency to be acknowledged at least. I suggest you make arrangements with him and talk this out personally. This is a public message board and there are limits to what we can post and answer. Surely, you know where to find him. It is awkward to be reading something as tangible as this is and no one of us want to be in the middle of personal affairs. Do get it out your system, I understand the urgency and the need to do it for your peace of mind. Is yours falsifiable, is ask the least.. Good luck!
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
To: Reader
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
oh! I did no noticed ,your posting was deleted.I admire your courage,Reader. The thing is, we do not know who you are,anyhow I believe that you are telling the truth not that I doubt the truthfulness of our poster.Please come out from the darkness so that you will be given due attention.There is a saying, the truth shall make you free,and him too. Are you the mother of this child?
From: Reader
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 162.99.228.143
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
There is no fairness here, my article disappeared. Someone posted a question, and so I responded. You can be the most helpful person, and claim that your dalliances before and perhaps still at present are by willful participation and knowing of your marital status, still there is an ounce of deception. I can’t believe that a woman can go to bed with you without promise of affection. You said, no matter how infinitesimal (I am using your words) they are still deception. You said at one time you believe that if a person can steal a penny, he/she is liable to steal anything. If you lied even a white lie, still a lie. You said you are not into controlling relationship, and the only control you impose is the strength of your love. There is no worst control than mind control. Pinay said that a woman must be able to sustain the attention; I believe that Pinay can only sustain your attention because she can match your wits. The moment she forgets to align her eyebrows, you will be colder than the winter in Alberta. I happen to know that you have a namesake, Jr II – changed his last name to yours when he got naturalized citizen. He must be in his early 20s by now, a graduate of the school that you are so attached, yet you did not go that school; and you are so popular to the teachers there. Congratulation, he is constantly in Deans list at Davis U. Well, this will be the last posting as I know this will disappear too.
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Friday, August 06, 2010
Still...In Vino Veritas..so guys, if you wanted me to tell the truth, so serve me two cups of red wine, not dry please..but medium dry,sometime when we meet again.
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
So ist es,here at San Carlos Message Board,the Saliva being passed via Cyberspace!.Read the guys down there, were discussing ,"kotikot, fininger "etc..OH! Man's World",... Oh, what I'd do without a Man" as the song goes..it is time for the girls to intervene but there was a time the girls have also their stories to tell...he he he.This is San Carlos City Message Board,one sort of itself.... I drink red wine,mediun dry, mostly French, but have a piece of Cheese from the swiss coiuntry ,the "Gruyere", our humnble life!
From: jab
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 98.207.41.215
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
sharing one glass while drinking alchohol started as 'male bonding'. it signifies that you belong with the group. lately, the women joined the spree but the tradition continues. economy also plays the part of this tradition. its sort of 'mi casa es su casa' mentality only this one is something to do with drinking glass. my glass is your glass. people who try to cheat their buddy will be quickly reminded to pass the glass for the others to enjoy. saliva/microorganisms in the glass will not survive in the alcohol environment for the information of the paranoid. all for one, one for all
From: yols
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Never had a glass of beer and never had a smoke of any kind in my life, and proud of it! I can tolerate an occasional glass of white wine and those mixed drinks, but that's about it. In college, my friends called me Mom :( ___ I don't know Tasio, if they can afford to buy alcohol, then they could certainly afford to buy more than one glass, hehehe. ____ I think it's cultural more than anything, just like using spoon and fork when eating?
From: Tasio
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Yols, I did smoke a little during my youth but I never drunk alcohol because I have alcohol intolerance. Seventy five percent of Southeast Asians, Filipinos included, do not have the enzyme to digest alcohol so whenever they drink, their faces would turn red and their heart rate would increase. There are three boys in my family, two have alcohol intolerance. As far as sharing the same glass, I think it is what they call, “one for all and all for one” mentality. Also, the economic environment plays a hand. Let us ask the winos here about what they think., hehehe.
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Perhaps no one will believe me that I developed taste of whiskey at late age. I never consume alcohol during my youth. If I do, the most is one beer. Never own a pair of jeans until I was 27 years. I do hang around with people that drink, and my job was to bring them home safe. And true to my principle, I never shared my glass, whether of milk or whiskey. No paniilopan ko, angapo'y makagalaw angad agko initbanan.
From: Yols
Town_City:
Email:
To: Tasio
Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
You just reminded me of something. You know when guys get together and drink, why must you only use one glass??? I get the sharing of the alcohol, but why share each others' saliva as well?
From: Tasio
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Yols, this ompokan or male bonding during my time is "man estambay era ed kanto, man estorian era kaiban onaacar so "Cowboy Gin" metro. Manalwar era balet so balon bisita, ta moda nen saman so man kursonada. Ipanengneng da ya sikara so macho, ta ontetenek so effecto nen "Marka Demonyo".
From: Note
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
THIS IS DESPICABLE: FORT WASHINGTON MAN PLEADS GUILTY TO PRODUCING CHILD PORNOGRAPHY [U.S. Department of Justice] Pr. George’s man guilty of porn charge [Crime Scene / Washington Post]
From: yols
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 24.176.172.53
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Ay caramba! Is this another form of "male-bonding"? Antoy pulutan yo?
From: June
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 67.135.148.2
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Now I know, bnp can not wear short pants, but if he does, his short pants would look like women's capri jeans, all the way down below his knees. ha!ha!ha!. Now, tell me true, do you eat a lot of watermelon? Chemicals in watermelon will aggrevate the intensity of your desire and therefore add to extend the size, both of your mental and physical aspirations.
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Kiwakiw, is to stir clear liquid, kiwal is to stir thick liquid, especial term to maintain a certain consistency. Kotikot is only use to place something in a hole and not to an open container and it does not have to be the finger. Depending on the usage, it does not have vulgar connotation. This is different from "kaot" which means to remove something from a hole and means scoping something out of a hole. Kalkal or kalikal - also means to disturb something could be in a hole or container.
From: jab
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
does 'kiwakiw' and/or 'kotikot' involves other part of the body beside your finger?
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
every note
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
will response... should read; will respond
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To: Junior
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
I play piano, and my finger could reach the 7th cord without displacing the thumb in its original place. The dexterity and the limberness of my finger allows me to play notes in staccatto but rapid sequences. As I move my fingers, the subject will response in harmony like a dancer that follows every notes without missing a beat.
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To: Tiburon
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Thursday, August 05, 2010
Kanian manaya nen pinasamano mo ak nen katantaon, medio anengneng kod matam so pankelaw ta nen nanpasamanoan ta, anengneng mon agay lay karukey na tamorok ya linmabas ed tangan ko nen pinasamano taka. he!he!he!
From: K B
Town_City:
Email:
To:
Remote Name: 75.86.183.69
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Just a reminder,if you are "at attention" for four straight hours, you will be in trouble.
From: ano raw yon
Town_City:
Email:
To: jr
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Well, I heard that metaphore as newly wed.The kids were saying Tita,saludo ba si Papa sa ,flag ceremony ,sa umaga ,sa tanghali at sa hapon ...at sa gabi pa..may narinig daw sila.....ag ko natalusan...pero sagot ko siempre...
From: june
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 67.135.148.2
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
One more that I forgot. BnP probably wears shoe size 14. I read somewhere that the male ID is proportional to his shoe size. Because bnp works for 8 hours as a fitting specialist, then his ID will always stand at attention, like the flag ceremony. A habitual condition would become permanent after daily occurence.
From: june
Town_City:
Email:
To: bnp
Remote Name: 67.135.148.2
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
One more thing, bnp. I believe you wear a shoe size of 12 to 14. It is the effect of the exotic job that you do. I remember reading in a magazine that the male ID is proportional to his shoe size. After working for 8 hours fitting bras and implant, your IT is always at attention, like how we were during flag ceremony in elementary schools. ha!ha!ha!
From: junior
Town_City:
Email:
To: bnp
Remote Name: 67.135.148.2
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Since you're a fitting specialist for the bra and the implant, I would imagine that your fingers are slender, soft and tender. I believe that you probably played a lot of video games during your vacant hours. why I said that is because you need to synchronize your fingers with your eyes to make sure you touch the right places. You probably enjoy the bra fitting job than the implant. Like most people, we crave for something we can not touch than something we can touch. It is called human greed why we want more than we have.
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
To: BNP.Tasio and Tibbs
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
don't shout it outloud,BNP,the ladies may come to the shop wearing chastity underwears and a corsage of steel! They might have understood, you are inviting them to "swim in your swimming pool without water " ...ha ha ha...matalino man ang matsing.
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To: Tasio
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
You have to remember that we came from the same town and resourcefulness is next to our nature. We know that vinegar contains sugar and we can actually make it sweet as sugar by process of distillation. You do not have to be chemist to know this, but you have to be resourceful. BTW, you know I have a part time employment and I can do it for free if asked. I am a quality technician at a breat implant clinic; and also a fitting specialist at bali bra company and at Victoria secret. I am opening a new division with the geriatics, since you have been volunteering at senior homes, I can offer you something that may get you off your rocking chair. You can bring Tibbs to be your assistant and apply his moment to moment theory. His services maybe needed there. he!he!he!he!
From: Tasio
Town_City:
Email:
To: BnP
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
We are all creative in our own way, It is like picking clothes that we wear. But when it comes human sexuality, You are the most creative, beyond compare! hehehe btw, how did you know that my wife is from Pozorrubio? I don't remember mentioning where she grew up.
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Pero kung may Lola silang diskumpiado, siguradong pagsilong mo bubuhusan ka ng ihi nakalagay sa arinola, na may pangalan ka. he!he!he!he!
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Para kang naghaharana ah! Naalala ko, habang may nag-gigitara, at may umaawit, isa sa inyo ang nasa silungan at kinakapa kung nasaan ang manok, at biglang sasakalin para hindi pumiyak. Pag uwi, mayroon na kayong pulutan. he!he!he!
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
If I do not know any better, I thought you were writing the poem for yourself, and expressing your deep emotion for someone other than your better half. I know that she is from Puzurrobio, a landlocked town. But then I am reminded of your strong imagination - to be creative as the nature of scientist often are. Sometimes, that also work in my theory poco se poco seva lejos, and when you scatter sweet nothings, someone of to your persuasion may pick it up and start it from there. Ahh, isn't that the flirting 101?
From: A G
Town_City:
Email: For entertainment
To: All
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Here is the "The Song of Claudia", in living colors. The poem was transformed into a truly remarkable art that blened the words with pictures. Hope you'll enjoy it.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TKJNB5N0vSk
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
To: AG and nasingpet 42
Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
very touching ,the acoustic guitar and the beach . Perfect blend and inspiring artistry made by nasingpet 42..why not post it here AG...I am overwhelmed ,speechless....
From: A G
Town_City:
Email:
To: Claudia ,Lady Godiva, Amazonia, LW
Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Claudia, please visit the town of Asingan. Something is waiting for you there! I guarantee that you will enjoy this work of art!
From: Claudia
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
I do not agree with Zorro saying ..."when the Frau is not able to deliver".....bacause it is absolute an expression of deepest love...
From: Claudia
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Wednesday, August 04, 2010
I can agree with BNP's postulation that the lust or desire is one most important factor in our attraction to opposite sex and also vital to our decision making .In my personal experience ,I started to look and feel the very natural desire in adolescent years,the hormones play important factor..this begins when we start our menstrual cycle.And of course I had, like anyother teen crushes but we were very puritan in upbringing and had no chance to date anybody nor had a boyfriend. We were not allowed to go to jamming,parties ,public dance etc where body contact is possible.But this internal desire of lust plays very vital role,I only realized now,thinking that there was something I felt with that young good looking guy and so I remember ..now we got married,and lust in its very natural definition is of course a factor until now,Some call it sex...and as for jab's posting,. I agree everything is allowed or welcomed as long as both agree, consentand enjoy..even that kind of cariño de amor!
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To: Tasio
Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
My conclusion was based on jab's last posting.
From: BnP
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 68.48.78.87
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
We men had been maligned as the apostle of sexuality; but, it is in that lustful desire that we formed the basis of our lifelong decision; it is our lustful attraction that generates that enduring relationship. But one may ask, is not a man different from dawn to sunset? Yes, but our ability to adjust to the difference and the changing harmony and discord of the variations make the secret of the music of life. I know of no more impassioned an encomium for marriage as the recognition that the true essence of marriage where love, trust and understanding is the cornerstone of the relationship – is the expectancy to provide continuity of your life through your issues (children). Thus, the pleasures you enjoyed with your moment of privacy with your wife is more than just fun, that I define that passion as more than appetite. So those that endured long marriage and are seeing themselves in their grandkids are experiencing the grand happiness that one can experience. I too will look for that day when I can have that little mind teaser walk with me. Envious probably is my feeling right now, but I can always say that “Loving” is simply more than being loved. Ahhh! Wondrous how can a single malt exhilarate one’s thinking.
From: Pinay
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 68.145.115.101
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
Just came home from a huge reunion of my in-laws 70th wedding anniversary and was looking forward to all your thought provoking postings but to my dismay, the last postings I read was mine days ago. Is everybody enjoying the 100+F temperatures down there? Anyway, I really felt blessed to be a part of a loving, inclusive and wonderful family of Dutch/German ascestry. Three Asians managed to penetrate their fold, a Chinese, Japanese and Filipino and we are holding our own very well indeed and my 97 yo father in law promised to dance with me at his 100 bday celebration so I plan to take dancing lessons for that. I asked him what his secret for a long, happy and loving marital bliss, and he said, "I let my wife decide on the little things and so far, nothing big happened that required my attention". All 8 children paid tributes to their parents and one of the 4 sons aptly said that his parents typifies two people who are at the opposite end of the spectrum and yet it is their differences that attracted them and over the years, they have fine tuned conflict resolutions that they managed to maintain their interests and personality. Love, respect and trust are paramount in any relationship, Mom said.
From: Tasio
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 76.92.225.251
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
Bnp, mostly likely, si Jab bii. When she talks in third person, she puts herself in the events as an inactive participant, as an observer or as a passive participant. But when you, bnp, talked about your adventures, it was very obvious that you were in control of the car. Whenever jab talked, she had presented herself as a third person relating the “events” that she observed. Kaya, mayroon pa rin siyang ugaling mahinhin.
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
To: KB
Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
Amayamay so anengneng kon "outie" balet ta say kawalaan dan pasen so diad tagey na puseg. Tan duara ran lanang. Natan antak ya si jab et laki. Alingo si Tasio kuanto to so bii si jab. he!he!he!he! Onpan masiwal nen siak yay lasin too.
From: K B
Town_City:
Email:
To: BnP
Remote Name: 75.86.183.69
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
Say tawag ed english na amay matundiris ya poseg so "OUTIE", he he he!
From: Alumna
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 71.199.160.154
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
I dated a San Carlenian during my St.Joseph days. Amputi layags are of a different kind of breed. They know what they want. During the few dates I had with him, he was running around Dagupan with guts and glory; his gun! What a turn off when I found out; asked why the need to be doing such, he said it was a must in their family. He was actually a sweet, smart guy (my Dad said these were traits of the real amputi layags) but his guts and guns were enough to remind me to stay away from him regardless of what I felt then....
From: BnP
Town_City:
Email:
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Remote Name: 158.70.200.96
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
San Carlos City map is found inside a Pangasinan Map, which is also inside the Philippine Map. San Carlenians are born with a homing device that they always find their way home. They also homing devise in their heart that no matter how lost they are, buried in the arms of a tempest, they will walk away and find their way home. In addition, because they have pristine heart that no matter how they wander in the dark; the light of truth in their heart will guide them home. So if you are lost and trying to find your way, you will always be unharmed in the arms of a San Carlenian. San Carlenians have big heart that out of the goodness of their heart, they shared Basista, a former Sitio in San Carlos and made a municipality out of it. Pasibe used to be part of San Carlos but because they want Urbiztondo to be as big as San Carlos, or closer to its size, they give away Pasibe to Urbiztondo. Malabago used to be with San Carlos, but because of the kindness of our heart, we shared Malabago too with Calasiao. The men of San Carlos are loving, caring and good provider of happiness and wealth at home, so they find themselves wanted by most women. But of the goodness of their heart, they shared their love that should have been solely devoted to their wives. Now you fault them, and they will say, our fault we admit it but, we rather err on the side of giving than being selfish at all. That is the humble San Carlenian in all of us. And when you asked, why not share your women? San Carlenian will say, we pampered our women so much that they become so demanding, so rather than make everyone suffer, we will care for them and endure and sacrifice our happiness. All because San Carlenian have golden hearts.
From: pangasinan
Town_City:
Email:
To: All
Remote Name: 124.217.83.122
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
where can i find a san carlos city map?
From: Claudia
Town_City:
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Remote Name: 78.34.6.44
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
OMG,jab....I will request yols to post that website she posted last year at Binmaley MB about this subject matter....I learned a a lot,it is never too late!!!!!Achtung,,,we'll get censored...
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Remote Name: 209.11.184.1
Date: Tuesday, August 03, 2010
the act of licking is the next best thing you can do to a woman when one refuse to use seldinafil citrate. it is known that a tongue is the most powerful part of ones body when it comes to a woman so long as the man knows how to caress ones partner (with his tongue).